Grimm... No.
You're my Bro, man.
I'm gonna lay it out there anyway. You know I have love for you. But if the two of you were to battle for my affections, Ren would win, no doubt.
Not trying to hurt feelings. But I don't need anyone getting territorial over me like that. Even though I think you mean well. ...more than it would seem.
@Ren !
Don't be sad, silly! I've already promised my hand to someone else. Plus, you're across the pond. I'm wishing for a wonderful love for you. I hope you'd find someone who isn't a plain and simple undergrad, anyway.
Your special ENFP is out there waiting for you, I'm sure.