muir
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I also have pretty quick reflexes for things like games and non-stressful situations. On the other hand I somehow seem to shut down when I am faced with a crisis situation such as a fire. I accidentally set fire to a room once and I was lucky enough to have others with me there because my brain just shut off and when they were asking questions like 'where is your fire-extinguisher? or where is the nearest source of water? or how about a blanket?' I couldn't even answer, even though I knew all those things. My very extroverted husband though is an ace in a crisis. He can think very quickly. Maybe that's what they mean.
My husband says that I am 'weak' because of my slow response time in such a situation. Once the fire is out though I'm ok and I can take over and take care of everything better than he can. There are strengths in both types of reactions. Although, I guess if I don't react and die in the emergency event then I won't have a chance to use my strengths. He does have a point there.
I think a pre-prepared game plan can help a lot
This is the purpose of training for things isn't it so that we can perform in stressful situations.
I've put someone out of fire by reacting pretty quickly but then there wasn't any other option but to use my coat so i guess that doesn't count! In your scenario you had multiple options to run through: get a blanket, fill abucket of water, go for the fire extinguisher (and then you have to remember where it is!)
Maybe this is why we like systems!
Training for people entering highly stressed situations eg firemen or soldiers seems to work by increasing the amount of chaos each time so that people can operate under increasingly chaotic situations
if we have a game plan or training to follow then things are simple: is what is happening scenario A or B? Ok its A so i need to do X
Its like the 'ABC' of CPR isn't it? These sort of mneumonics are designed to allow the computing part of the brain to follow a sequence regardless of whatever is happening and not be crowded out by the chaos
Dangerous situations do weird things to the perceptions. Time can change and things can become tunnel visioned and take on an unreal quality. This is why people have to train to be able to maintain all round awareness and function...but i think most types would need that
Here's a question: if you had been the only person in the room, do you think you would have acted quicker?
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