John K
Donor
- MBTI
- INFJ
- Enneagram
- 5W4 549
My own experience tends to support this slant. I didn't actually know much about MBTI until I was 50 so I'm looking back before that with hindsight. I think my experience with other children when I was seven or eight pushed me into developing thinking skills in depth because I found I could use it to counter the devaluation I felt - I did a lot of Ti / Fe stuff back then. I bet this sort of thing happens to a lot of people, and unless they dig deep into exploring themselves, they may never see an alternative to their acquired preferences. I can confirm that for myself, Ni is a far more comfortable old sock than Ti could ever be, but i may never have consciously realised that without the language that Jung provided with which we can differentiate and express these ideas.How much of this feeling "different" and "special" and "apart from society" is an innate personality trait versus a specific experience of life due to circumstances? And further, is this idea that the traumatic events we have gone through, and the impact of those events, truly groundwork to say "this is WHO I am" versus "this is WHERE I've been"?
I think this is only a serious risk for people who mistype themselves and make life decisions on such as career choice and partner on the back of it. I don't think this happens very often - most people who come across MBTI probably treat it a bit like a tabloid quiz and nothing more than a bit of a laugh.How much is this belief is a non scientific, self reported test holding back the personal development of those who use is as a framework to explain and justify themselves?
I think your instincts a right here. Jung made it clear that personality isn't set in stone, and he thought that people are naturally wired to become increasingly conscious of their hidden selves as they go through life. He saw the period up to about 40 as when we develop our primary and secondary functions, with the rest of our lives focused on expanding out into ever increasing ability with the other functions. A lot of his patients were people over the age of 40 who were frozen and couldn't move on in that kind of way, and were mentally ill as a result. I've put this in terms of his typology, but that was only a part of the way he describes this process, which he called individuation, and which he thought in healthy people continued on right up to the end of our lives. And I say Amen to that !How do we know that the personality is set in stone, and even presuming somehow that was proven, how do we know that we have enough self awareness and impartiality to answer a self reported test in an accurate way that would reflect who we truly are instead of what we want to be?