HeavyNeuralPayload
Community Member
- MBTI
- INFJ
I have heard that it's not uncommon for these metrics to change across time. I'm curious if anyone here has any experience with this.
The last time I took the MBTI (16personalities - unsure if there's a better free alternative) I was firmly in all four INFJ categories. This was back in 2021. I'm so glad I had the foresight at the time to take a screenshot of the breakdown.
97% Introverted, 64% Intuitive, 65% Feeling, 57% Judging, (63% Turbulent)
My most recent taken last week has me much farther out on the J, but sitting pretty close to 50% on both N and F.
100% Introverted, 55% Intuitive, 51% Feeling, 82% Judging, (67% Turbulent)
There is zero doubt in my mind that I am an introvert and always have been. But the way in which the other three dimensions all shifted over the past three years seems interesting. I've been finding myself wondering over the past week if I took this assessment again three years from now if the trends might continue in a similar direction. I've looked over the INTJ details and that feels similarly in alignment - especially when I think about approaches that I take at work.
Probably back to overthinking, but I've found myself considering how the work sphere may have helped shape this, and how more often over the past few years I've found myself having to be aware of and separate myself from my feelings about various things. I think foster care - and probably parenting in general - forces one to put his/her feelings to the side as well. There have been a lot of events that have taken place where it feels like a recurring theme has been "there are feelings and those matter, but they are not painting the whole picture."
It is also fascinating to me that the Judging piece ramped up as much as it did. I was perusing the "J vs P differences" sticky thread and musing over some of the examples given. In the way of an anecdote, one thing my wife does is sets timers and works on Task A until the timer goes off, then immediately shifts to Task B and resets the timer. Then back to Task A. And she adheres to this very rigidly. There have been times where the dishwasher is 97% empty and there's maybe two glasses left that need to be put away, but they will remain there for the next 20-30 minutes until she's back on "kitchen time". Leaving a task undone right at the finish line like this just feels monumentally wrong to me. It hasn't prompted arguments or anything - we're pretty accepting of one another's differences. But I'm as confused by this as she is of some of my own behaviors - like the desire to complete one thing before moving on to something else. Like in my mind it's like, "You didn't want to put those last two glasses away and have that mental checklist list item ticked off before restarting your timer?"
Is any of this relatable in any way?
The last time I took the MBTI (16personalities - unsure if there's a better free alternative) I was firmly in all four INFJ categories. This was back in 2021. I'm so glad I had the foresight at the time to take a screenshot of the breakdown.
97% Introverted, 64% Intuitive, 65% Feeling, 57% Judging, (63% Turbulent)
My most recent taken last week has me much farther out on the J, but sitting pretty close to 50% on both N and F.
100% Introverted, 55% Intuitive, 51% Feeling, 82% Judging, (67% Turbulent)
There is zero doubt in my mind that I am an introvert and always have been. But the way in which the other three dimensions all shifted over the past three years seems interesting. I've been finding myself wondering over the past week if I took this assessment again three years from now if the trends might continue in a similar direction. I've looked over the INTJ details and that feels similarly in alignment - especially when I think about approaches that I take at work.
Probably back to overthinking, but I've found myself considering how the work sphere may have helped shape this, and how more often over the past few years I've found myself having to be aware of and separate myself from my feelings about various things. I think foster care - and probably parenting in general - forces one to put his/her feelings to the side as well. There have been a lot of events that have taken place where it feels like a recurring theme has been "there are feelings and those matter, but they are not painting the whole picture."
It is also fascinating to me that the Judging piece ramped up as much as it did. I was perusing the "J vs P differences" sticky thread and musing over some of the examples given. In the way of an anecdote, one thing my wife does is sets timers and works on Task A until the timer goes off, then immediately shifts to Task B and resets the timer. Then back to Task A. And she adheres to this very rigidly. There have been times where the dishwasher is 97% empty and there's maybe two glasses left that need to be put away, but they will remain there for the next 20-30 minutes until she's back on "kitchen time". Leaving a task undone right at the finish line like this just feels monumentally wrong to me. It hasn't prompted arguments or anything - we're pretty accepting of one another's differences. But I'm as confused by this as she is of some of my own behaviors - like the desire to complete one thing before moving on to something else. Like in my mind it's like, "You didn't want to put those last two glasses away and have that mental checklist list item ticked off before restarting your timer?"
Is any of this relatable in any way?