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But "be", in this case, is in passive voice, so there is no boxing in that you do yourself. You may not feel it, since you know you merely lean yourself, but others might put you in the box, and thus condemn you. It is hard to illustrate this for people who put themselves and others in boxes, in addition to having a black-and-white attitude operating under the assumption that "if you're not with us, you're against us" (only in this case: "if you're not conservative, you're liberal" or the other way around). I find the boxes pretty ridiculous, though the American party system really only perpetuates this attitude.I try to avoid the verb "be", which I think is what essentialises categories and constitutes the real problem. I'd rather say I lean towards liberalism.
I don't feel boxed in that way.
In Germany it's kind of different, there being 5-6 parties or more in the Bundestag, but the problems in that case are not less, only different. It certainly is more shades of grey than black and white. There is less "belonging" with either of the parties among the citizenship, unless you include members of a party, and nowadays it's only about choosing the lesser evil, whichever you trust more to represent your needs in the next four years. After that, the pack is reshuffled again. Therefore, hereabouts there's hardly any use to put others in boxes (unless they are far left or far right). There used to be more dissent, as in school we used to make fun of FDP-Wähler (the ones voting for the Free Democrats); now, it has become more complicated, the more central parties consorting to keep the others at bay, while keeping face and probably stabbing each other in the back. Well, but this is what coalition contracts are for, right? Political pre-nups.