i have this intense experience where i tend to perceive myself the way that others perceive me when im with them, and feel about myself the feelings that they direct towards me, and i dont realise until later that it was their feelings and not mine. the best feeling is when someone has had a huge crush on me, haha. but, maybe a lot of people are like this.
i have this intense experience where i tend to perceive myself the way that others perceive me when im with them, and feel about myself the feelings that they direct towards me, and i dont realise until later that it was their feelings and not mine. the best feeling is when someone has had a huge crush on me, haha. but, maybe a lot of people are like this.
i think that realising this as ive gotten older has actually had a big effect on my priorities for choosing a romantic partner. i wouldnt say that i expect to be adored, or that i myself think that i am anything special, but it wouldnt be possible anymore to connect with someone who didnt see me as special.