Retreat from the Middle East would be a good thing. Let them fight themselves to death. Let them continue in their antiquated ways. Maybe instead of trying to engage them (and overthrow their democratically elected leaders by way of the CIA for the benefit of multinational corporations), we should just leave them be, or follow the same policies we followed with the Soviets - isolation and containment.
After the fall of the Soviet Union, the European Union forced Russia to modernize to a great extent or not benefit from trade and such. In the 1970s (and to a greater extent in the 1980s) the United States did the same to China. It paid off for Russia and it has paid off for China. Granted, in those cases, you've got the oligarchs replacing the nomenklatura, and Party seniors replacing... equal poverty... but it's better than nothing.
Suffocate the Middle East long enough - including Israel, until they stop their barbarism against lands that don't belong to them - and they may very well come to their senses. If they don't, we can expect them to wipe one another out bit by bit, and hey, we still get all the oil! It's win-win!
Oh, of course Russia will try to be buddy-buddy with the Middle Eastern nations, but we'll see how well that works for them.
A coalition of containment seems like a good idea.