randomsomeone
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I have one or two really good friends that I have met on-line...and lots of very warm acquaintances. Remember, I had 38 thousand posts over on another forum. These have been really wonderful relationships, mostly because they evolved over time...time to communicate, time to play and tease, time to cobble the details of one's life, time to share grief and joy.
I have had similar luck in real life, but only where time is part of the equation. To tell you the truth, this is partly why I go to the same little Mexican restaurant all the time. The continuity has allowed some deep, loving friendships to evolve. I have had similar luck riding the commuter rail every work day...how many people do you sit face-to-face that often with nothing to do but visit.
These real-life relationships are not "soul friendships" but they are honest and sincere, and that is enough for me.
To tell the truth, on-line friends have a better sense (over time) of who I really am than most real-life acquaintances, but only because of the written nature of the communication.
I have had similar luck in real life, but only where time is part of the equation. To tell you the truth, this is partly why I go to the same little Mexican restaurant all the time. The continuity has allowed some deep, loving friendships to evolve. I have had similar luck riding the commuter rail every work day...how many people do you sit face-to-face that often with nothing to do but visit.
These real-life relationships are not "soul friendships" but they are honest and sincere, and that is enough for me.
To tell the truth, on-line friends have a better sense (over time) of who I really am than most real-life acquaintances, but only because of the written nature of the communication.