blueflame
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The title sounds like this will be an unusual topic and I suppose it will be one with interesting responses. I have been thinking lately about the reasons why some people become parents. I myself am not a parent but I look at the way people are with their children and what they have to say in their own words on how they treat their kids. I know there is no guide book to parenting, you just have to be one to really know what it feels like, but none the less it is interesting. On the one hand parenting has to do with something basic and primal (reproduction), but then there are the added psyco/socio elements and symbolisms of the modern day and age such as:
Achieving Immortality the only way currently possible
Narcissism: Creating the ultimate audience/support group
Savior complex: related to narcissus, needing to feel needed/powerful unjudged
Children are "pure" and a blank slate. At young ages they are very dependent and easily influenced. They also love unconditionally.
Some parents are too strict but some are too lenient and the ones who are most lenient interest me most. My opinion is they are from strict households or they themselves are reckless. They are overly concerned with being approved of and liked by their children and want to be their kids friend and "don't want to stifle them" and allow them to explore. They also allow the kids to make adult desicions. Too much freedom especially at a young age can be detrimental. Especially the parents that share too much info with their kids about sex, drugs, death and world problems and their not even teens. What makes it even more interesting is when they contradict themselves and don't allow them to do certain things that are considered normal like celebrating hollidays or have certain things because starving kids don't have those things. Wealthy parents also do this out of guilt because they aren't actually the ones raising their kids.
Any thoughts on overly strick or lenient parents? Or parents that contradict themselves?
Achieving Immortality the only way currently possible
Narcissism: Creating the ultimate audience/support group
Savior complex: related to narcissus, needing to feel needed/powerful unjudged
Children are "pure" and a blank slate. At young ages they are very dependent and easily influenced. They also love unconditionally.
Some parents are too strict but some are too lenient and the ones who are most lenient interest me most. My opinion is they are from strict households or they themselves are reckless. They are overly concerned with being approved of and liked by their children and want to be their kids friend and "don't want to stifle them" and allow them to explore. They also allow the kids to make adult desicions. Too much freedom especially at a young age can be detrimental. Especially the parents that share too much info with their kids about sex, drugs, death and world problems and their not even teens. What makes it even more interesting is when they contradict themselves and don't allow them to do certain things that are considered normal like celebrating hollidays or have certain things because starving kids don't have those things. Wealthy parents also do this out of guilt because they aren't actually the ones raising their kids.
Any thoughts on overly strick or lenient parents? Or parents that contradict themselves?