Like the prisoners chained in the cave, what we are allowed to see and how we understand it is deeply affected by our families, communities and cultures. Considered positively, we think of these influences as the guidance and wisdom of our parents and community; we often embrace much of what they taught us as our values. However, considered critically, these values and traditions may be rigid and difficult to challenge.
Consider something your family is strongly opposed to, that other families and communities nonetheless embrace. Examples may include sexual orientation, same-sex marriage, religion, party politics or public policy. Now, assume you wished to embrace a choice that was distinctly at odds with the values of your family. Further, assume that you have good reasons for this choice, and assume that you honestly believe this approach is better than your family