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surreality said:
Trying to do too much or to put it another way, never being satisfied with a job well done..always seeing room for improvement (ie. editing and re-editing to the point where the time spent becomes counter productive).

What compliment would an INFJ appreciate the most?
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I guess, it must be Love. INFJs can understand this thing very well. What do you think?
 
fly away said:
"soulmate"

You find each other and you know that you have that strong connection. There doesn't have to be anything romantic about it or anything like that.
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Exactly, which is difficult for many to understand.
 
How do INFJ's get things out of their chest without being seen as emotional, irrational and sensitive?
 
Federer said:
Then i have to think about it, which compliment INFJ can appreciate most? :?
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We never answered this one so I will.

First off, the compliment has to be sincere. We'll know if it's not. I feel that we don't take compliments about our looks too well, so it would have to be about something internal.

Something like "You have a beautiful heart/soul" comes to my mind.


What trait in a person does an INJF despise the most?
 
Questingpoet said:
We never answered this one so I will.

First off, the compliment has to be sincere. We'll know if it's not. I feel that we don't take compliments about our looks too well, so it would have to be about something internal.

Something like "You have a beautiful heart/soul" comes to my mind.


What trait in a person does an INJF despise the most?
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Quite true.
 
Questingpoet said:
We never answered this one so I will.

First off, the compliment has to be sincere. We'll know if it's not. I feel that we don't take compliments about our looks too well, so it would have to be about something internal.

Something like "You have a beautiful heart/soul" comes to my mind.


What trait in a person does an INJF despise the most?
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Personally, I despise insincerity or lack of genuineness of any kind. Although, I do recognize there are circumstances in our lives where we have to put on a face, even though I hate being in that kind of a predicament. There is a difference between having social graces though and being a total phoney.

If I had to pick one trait right now though, as my most despised, it would have to be ego-centrism...followed closely by carelessness, which actually kind of follows.

Last Dawn said:
How do INFJ's get things out of their chest without being seen as emotional, irrational and sensitive?
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I'll leave this one for the next person to answer....
 
Second question is tough for me to answer. :S

Generally i talk to someone to my closest friend, get things out of my chest. I talk to them straight forward and yes, i become emotional when i feel something related to me.
 
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Questingpoet said:
What trait in a person does an INJF despise the most?
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I despise know it all attitude without compassion. It gets annoying to have to talk to someone who knows so much but they can't impart their wisdom in a down to earth, compassionate way. I guess this is due to their emotional detachment or fear. Whatever it is I stay away from them even if I can learn something from them.:m173:
 
Last Dawn said:
How do INFJ's get things out of their chest without being seen as emotional, irrational and sensitive?
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Mine usually filters through extreme directness which can be seen as mean or brutally honest. I don't think about it when I am doing it, I am only thinking about getting it off my chest. Then I realize the damage I have done and I have to mediate the situation I just caused. It's not constructive...
 
solongotgon said:
I despise know it all attitude without compassion. It gets annoying to have to talk to someone who knows so much but they can't impart their wisdom in a down to earth, compassionate way. I guess this is due to their emotional detachment or fear. Whatever it is I stay away from them even if I can learn something from them.:m173:
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Read my mind . . . again. :m047:
 
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