cause I like you guys and want to understand your personality type better. feel free to answer as many or as few of these as you like. also, anyone else can answer too if they like.
1) what personality traits do you most admire and respect?
A1) I admire one who asserts himself and is confident in what he is asking about, one who cares for all and who is generous, who thinks for everyone and helps the weak and loves animals etc etc.
2) what personality traits are you most offended by?
A2)those who are narrow minded, who see things as too simply just by outlook, who assume without finding enough evidence, who consider themselves too much before others, who say things that are tactless especially.
3) how confident are you that you are in fact an INFJ?
A3) I can only say i have tested as infp,infj,istj,isfj,isfp,esfj,intp,istp before and they go according to how much i knew about mbti before. I used to think i might be either an isfp or infp and took joy in knowing I was a P, that i came across as fun and carefree. But as i found out more about cognitive functions I realised i had very strong Se and i myself knew I wasnt a healthy infj at all. All along i believed being P was a fun and more approachable person with a carefree lifestyle and never wanted to be a J from the start. But seeing how i hate surprises, liked being well prepared and worrying about the future and doing things in advance before they happened and being stressed when something unexpected was thrown at me, yup that surely made me a J whether i liked it or not.
4) what enneagram personality type are you?
A4) im gonna have to put infj, not cuz i wanna be a special bird but because i couldnt find anything else to fit me as ive tried being another many many times. Im ordinary, i cant be infp or isfp anymore because i lack the authenticity they deeply protect and embrace. Yes i know i will self doubt again some time later if im infj but if it helps im definitely an Se user somewhere in my stack for I buy materialistic items almost always, strong in my senses and the here and now but not Sensor enough to stay locked in facts and routine. I worry how others might look at me and am unable to wear my own artworks out because i fear people might not accept it and even i judge my own artworks that they are not perfect enough. Im self absorbed but not to the point where im able to disregard other people's feelings when hurt. If i do do it, i regret almost immediately and wonder how will we meet or behave the next time, and if i bring on a conflict i know there will be awkwardness and alot of tension, so i tend to anticipate what might happen before i say something. Besides i do have quite a few traits of the infj bearing in mind im not proud that im an unhealthy person and that im prone to huge rage and impulsiveness, feasting and drinking heavily when stressed.
5) if your partner cheated on you, said it was a mistake and asked for your forgiveness, would you be able to give it?
A5) i would depending on how he shows repentance and how much he is willing to change. I would never forget but i dont like not forgiving because not forgiving someone also means not forgiving yourself and allowing both to be in torture forever and thats not the kind of life i want to live.
6) when you see homeless people by the side of the road, do you give them money?
A6) Sometimes but not often at all, because i know once i start, i wont be able to stop and if i give one i must give the others as well and i cant just give one day but not give often after that. Plus the person must be anticipating something from me in future but being disappointed that i didnt give like the last time. And i dont like giving false hopes.
7) would you want the power to be able to see into the future?
A7) oh yes man, imagine the mistakes i could avoid now and how will the world change, what illnesses my pets could have so that i can start saving up for them then.
What things to avoid now so that i wont regret in future.
8) if some dear friend of yours was dying of terminal cancer asked you to euthanize him/her, would you be able to do it?
A8) This is such a painful question as ive been through numerous pet deaths, and pets are totally my family and it really tears the heart up let alone a human being. I will see what quality of life this person will have if he remains in the same condition, how willing is he to move on to another place, is his reason strong enough to make me budge? Even in the case of insects who irk me, if a roach is half crushed by something i know i should put it out of its misery, yet my hand simply will not strike it and it makes me upset because either way i cant do anything. So i suppose i will say it depends actually, the amount of pain, how much is the person willing to forgo and the family that is left etc.
Eventually he will go due to terminal cancer so i suppose i will let nature take over unless there are more details provided as to why I must be the one to do it, why must he die even earlier if he is to die anyway. What is the situation such that he must go asap. Where are the doctors and nurses assisting the patient and how am i to euthanise without knowledge on what drug and what syringe and how much dosage, and when to do it such that i wont be caught, what to do if i am caught and sent to jail and how many years will i have to do time and by the time i come out will i be able to find a job etc. How painful it must be to kill my close friend and it will definitely be on my conscience for the rest of my life and wondering if i did the right thing if i euthanised him.
9) how do you feel about humanity in general?
A9) i think people are selfish, racist, sexist, inhumane, wreaking havoc, killing, hunting, abusing, being violent, uncaring. It really baffles me why someone will do evil things to others without considering the aftermath. Certainly there are compassionate people who do care about this world and seek to improve, but they are overshadowed by people who want to do harm. That's why i cry each time i see some good done no matter how small it is, because it's so touching and so remarkable and it temporarily makes me forget that mean people exist.
10) why do you keep coming back to this forum (if you do)?
A10) because there isnt another intuitive in my life that shares my insights because i live mostly with sensors who dont think deeply enough or wonder much. I come back because i can get to know how other people think, what other interesting topics others can provide, and i love answering questions.
, no, seriously, I have love and caring for all and it can be a curse.
