Racism, love, discrimination, and acceptance.

and then they discriminate against me accordingly.

I still haven't figured out how to answer that question. Thus far I've told the truth. From experience, what I can tell you is that not knowing is better.

The popo racially profile all the time. Again, I live in NYC so its VERY common here.

That stop-and-frisk thing has gotten me hesitant to even visit NYC. It will take just one for me to get heated, and not ever come back.
 
We haven't yet. There will always be that other, less open mindset. It has been thousands of years and we are still trying to destroy what we don't understand.
Aren’t those the sociopaths (or Psychopaths if you will) that have no empathy making decisions that effect millions?
They estimate that Wall Street is comprised of about 20% psychopath…not that they have committed a crime…but they lack the empathy we need in a functioning society.
What percentage is Congress I wonder?
 
What country are you from?

The Netherlands.
Starting this summer you don't get "study financing" anymore though. It was about 270 euro per month. Enough to pay for almost all to a large chunk of your rent.
From then on you can only get a loan. A cheap loan though, for which you have 30 years to pay it back. The amount you have to pay back each month/year depends on your wage. If your wage is so low that you haven't paid everything back within 30 years, you won't have to pay the rest.

I don't know whether the new system will be any better. Students will be stuck with higher loans though. The general expectation is that less people will start studying, especially from those without wealthy parents. So it's changing for the worse, but in the past decennia it was quite equal.
 
The Netherlands.
Starting this summer you don't get "study financing" anymore though. It was about 270 euro per month. Enough to pay for almost all to a large chunk of your rent.
From then on you can only get a loan. A cheap loan though, for which you have 30 years to pay it back. The amount you have to pay back each month/year depends on your wage. If your wage is so low that you haven't paid everything back within 30 years, you won't have to pay the rest.

I don't know whether the new system will be any better. Students will be stuck with higher loans though. The general expectation is that less people will start studying, especially from those without wealthy parents. So it's changing for the worse, but in the past decennia it was quite equal.

This is what the US has come to….this sums it up perfectly.


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I think this country could easily be more harmonious, especially when people start to realize that there is indeed “class warfare” being done, but it’s being done to them…not the other way around.

I agree that it can be more harmonious. I meant to say there's a relatively low ceiling on that harmony because of diversity and even in the best case scenario it will be strenuous and unpleasant. That's how I see it, anyway.
 
Time to get real:


No, I don't think racism will "burn out". I think there will be another social/cultural/whatever forms of oppression that will evolve as a means to keep certain groups down. (Hell, we already have a new one... socioeconomic class.) Whether these groups are blacks, latinos, women, older adults, gays, lesbians, asians, poor, whatever. It's a sick mentality of the human race. It's a social construct ingrained into our history that is consistently repeated in some other way. There are so many oppressions depending on where you come from. The divider is that you are being oppressed, in some way or another. If you feel like the macrocosm is taking Your right to be who you are AND they are unjustly trying to control your group, you are being oppressed.

It pains me when people say "racism" is no longer. Fuck you to those who seriously think that way. Just because you have not been treated unfairly because of your skin color doesn't give you ANY right to invalidate others who have. I have, plenty of times. Because I am multi-racial, I have felt oppressed, victimized, and invalidated on many fronts. I've been included in some ethnic groups because of my skin color and also excluded because of it. People LOVE to ask me "What are you?" and ASSUME that I'm "insert ethnicity here", instead of ASKing me my background.... and then they discriminate against me accordingly.

Racism is not just "white" vs. "insert group here". We have discrimination between groups and minorities against minorities. In the Puerto Rican/Latino culture, you have an outdated class system created by the Spainards that is still used today. It's based on your skin color. That is where you get terms like "mulatto (black parent/white parent)" or "pardos ("mixed race"), etc. In the Dominican Republic, Trujillo used it to segregate dark Dominicans from light skinned Dominicans. Being light skin was better because you could blend in with the white, rich, Spanish elite. This mentality is still around with plenty of DR, Haitian, and PRican immigrants. I've even seen black-on-black hate as well. I'm not just pointing fingers at my Latino community because of these racists beliefs. I'm also shining light on the fact that a lot of this discrimination within minority groups dates back to white European imperialistic thought.

And yeah, The popo racially profile all the time. Again, I live in NYC so its VERY common here. I touched upon it my Eric Garner case post. I don't think it will stop either. The stereotype of a black or latino man walking through a neighborhood is ingrained in many people. You know damn well that you would get anxious or feel more cautious if you saw a black man with a hood on in your neighborhood. This stereotype has been ingrained into your mind for a reason -- to make you unconsciously discriminate against others.

I think people need to stop, take a seat, and think about a lot of the biases that they hold. They need to be aware that they are detrimental in some way. We need to talk about stereotypes --- the good, bad, and ugly sides of them and how they lead to discrimination and racism. We need to talk to our kids about covert and overt racism. We need to think before we speak... think about the stereotypes that we perpetrate in casual conversation. Think about the implications of your biases. I'm guilty of it. Your guilty of it. Your mama is guilty of it. Instead of feeling uncomfortable or guilty about racism, let's continue to Talk about it at the dinner table and come to an understanding. If you continue to act blindsided by it, you are another sheep. Think critically of the world around you and try to foster solutions. I'm not sure how to tackle this issue as a whole but I think it ultimately starts with the individual.

Reading your speech made my day. Now THIS is a realistic person.
 
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I want people to post just as many positive things on here too!!
Please!


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My great-grandparents were both deaf on my Mom’s side.
 
Do we have anyone here on the forum that is hardcore against gays?

I do get quite hard when I think of men having sex with one another.

Not sure if that's the same thing.
 
I do get quite hard when I think of men having sex with one another.

Not sure if that's the same thing.

It’s like this...

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Historically racism has evolved regarding the new immigrant group flooding into the USA. First it was Irish and Italian (almost at the same time), then Polish (throw some German in there as well), black (gaining equal rights) and now we have Latinos. A long time ago I learned (and cannot sit the source, but it made a whole lot of logical sense) that as long as there is new immigrant group moving into the US, all the others are pushed "upwards" ... meaning the generalizations and social mores against them fade in time. Which is strange btw, because there have been Latino families in the "Louisiana Purchase areas" longer than those claiming to be descendents from the Mayflower.

It will never go away as long as we have a new demographic wanting to become a US citizen. I do have friends from around the globe, and while the Europeans are forced to accept their new immigrants (mostly from Somalia) ... my sentiments and experience are not the same. We live in a world where it is difficult to become a US Citizen, while in Europe the government embraces refugees and the citizens are outraged (because they receive less services.) I think the root problem of embracing other citizens is political and not cultural at all.
 
Historically racism has evolved regarding the new immigrant group flooding into the USA. First it was Irish and Italian (almost at the same time), then Polish (throw some German in there as well), black (gaining equal rights) and now we have Latinos. A long time ago I learned (and cannot sit the source, but it made a whole lot of logical sense) that as long as there is new immigrant group moving into the US, all the others are pushed "upwards" ... meaning the generalizations and social mores against them fade in time. Which is strange btw, because there have been Latino families in the "Louisiana Purchase areas" longer than those claiming to be descendents from the Mayflower.

It will never go away as long as we have a new demographic wanting to become a US citizen. I do have friends from around the globe, and while the Europeans are forced to accept their new immigrants (mostly from Somalia) ... my sentiments and experience are not the same. We live in a world where it is difficult to become a US Citizen, while in Europe the government embraces refugees and the citizens are outraged (because they receive less services.) I think the root problem of embracing other citizens is political and not cultural at all.
You are correct, it is very difficult to get a visa in the US for almost everyone…it’s stacks of confusing and repetitive paperwork, then an intimidating interview usually some hours from where the person lives…then the clock starts ticking once it’s approved you had better move quickly.
I just find it very sad that people from central america are actually fleeing from dangerous situations and asking for asylum and yet we have a bunch of conservative retirees holding signs and scaring children on busses.
Yes, people abuse the system…but it’s this system that has been exploited for cheap labor by those who have money that are the real criminals here.
 
Getting Invited to A Party He Will Never Forget


Thousands of women are trying to do something very special for a man who was humiliated by bullies over the Internet.
As the Mirror reports, this photo was posted online and started making its rounds.



via Twitter / @Independant​

The caption reads:
Spotted this specimen trying to dance the other week. He stopped when he saw us laughing.


The second photo clearly depicts the man feeling dejected and humiliated.
Many people have not take kindly to the post, finding a public attack on a person who is just having fun and not causing any harm hard to swallow.

When Cassandra Fairbanks saw the photo, she set out to find him and give him a message.
Over 1,700 women have rallied under #FindDancingMan to find him and give him a dance party he will never forget!



via Twitter / @CassandraRules​


The tweet reads:
“Dancing Man,
We don’t know much about you,
but a photo on the internet suggested
that you wanted to dance and were
made to feel like you shouldn’t be.

We want to see you dance freely,
and if you would have us,
we would love to dance with you.

We are prepared to throw quite the
dance party just for you,
if you’d have us.

To be clear, it’s 1,727 of us.
And we are all women.

If this isn’t appealing, we are ok with
taking no for an answer,
but we’d like you to know- the offer stands.

May we have this dance?
-Sincerely
An occasionally overenthusiastic group of young women in California
#finddancingman

According Buzzfeed, Fairbanks explains:
“I decided to tweet it and our offer in the hopes if he did see it, he would see something positive instead of a bunch of people upset.”


Her tweet to “Find Dancing Man” was shared over 2,000 times.
And low and behold, in response to Fairbanks’ campaign, “The Dancing Man” was found.



via Twitter / @CassandraRules​


Fairbanks tells the Mirror:
“I spoke to him, he’s free in a couple weeks, he’s currently in Kiev, but we are planning the best party ever.”


It goes to show that for every bully, there are at least 1,000 people ready to stand against them.
 
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Truth.
 
Can’t we as rational humans rise above this?

Yes, we can, and it has started with people like you.

Thank you for all of your posts, for having the courage to discuss things that society would have us bury, for being an adult about it and discussing it rationally even when others instinctively retaliate with harsh words because their own ideals are being challenged, for seeing all perspectives and views, for creating these opportunities for change.

<3
 
Yes, we can, and it has started with people like you.

Thank you for all of your posts, for having the courage to discuss things that society would have us bury, for being an adult about it and discussing it rationally even when others instinctively retaliate with harsh words because their own ideals are being challenged, for seeing all perspectives and views, for creating these opportunities for change.

<3
Thank you!
I don’t always act like an adult though…just to be clear…hehe.
 
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