The problem, actually, is that there are different arguments from different perspectives in this thread. One side is coming at it from one country's perspective, and the other side is coming at the issue from another country's perspective. We can't discuss race and race relations if we're coming at it from a different perspective of our peers.
To those who have not had the experience of growing up in the United States: You cannot presume to know what it's like to live in the US. To those who have not had the experience of growing up as an ethnic minority in another country: You cannot presume to know what it's like to live in that country.
I can only come by my experiences as an African American woman living in the United States and from *that* perspective, yes. We *have* needed special circumstances and special help to get started because we've had over 200 years of back-breaking oppression that stopped us from even getting our foot in the door. 200 years is a long, long time and I suspect that it might take 200 more years to get some of the "stinkin' thinkin'" out of the minds of the majority. We have needed help, and we still do - but we also need to balance the help we've received with our own strength and power to succeed.
The key word here is EQUALITY. If things are not equal, then you will have issues on both sides. Someone will feel disenfranchised. Now mind you, sometimes equality comes at a price; sometimes those who have had power and have had control for some years will feel slighted because suddenly some of that power and control has to be shared with folks they haven't shared it with before. And that causes tension. And on the other side, those who haven't had much have to learn not to go out of their way to make the other side feel guilty, put out, and put upon. AND those who feel guilty about reparations should ask themselves why they feel guilty, and maybe try to bridge the gap by dialoguing with those who have not had much in a peaceful manner (understanding where the other side's coming from, in other words).
Race relations and relationships and dialogues are hot topics. If you can't see both sides of the issue and are willing to *listen* to both sides and think about what each side is saying, it's best not to get into the discussion. It's not that you can't get into it; it just means that you have to be willing to get hurt and feel hurt and yet still have the courage to talk to someone else without acting out of your own hurts.