S versus N

In my experience the ESFJ can be very manipulative...Yes they can be very blunt and honest. I think because they can form their values/lives around who they are hanging with at the time, they can get caught up trying to meet their needs without their "source" really knowing it to avoid being kicked out of their peer group.

Same for ENFJ's. Every E/F combination has the potential to be manipulative. It's certainly not the S.
 
Same for ENFJ's. Every E/F combination has the potential to be manipulative. It's certainly not the S.
I think it's a matter of Fe.

Also, I'm comparing me with my ESFJ sister and ESFJ friend, it seems they put more importance to "current" happiness (both are very into happiness theory / psychology and "positive energies") while I'm personally more into understanding and being in peace.

I don't know if this is common or not. Also, we don't conflict within this aspect, as long as it's not a debate of Happiness vs Contemplation
 
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