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Could a rule of thumb be if a parent feels ashamed after spanking his or her child, or if they wouldn't want others to know about it - then they shouldn't do it?
I don't think scientific studies etc. saying it's harmful matters much, if spanking is common procedure within one society. Shame on the other hand, seems to be an effective decision-maker and indicator of what's culturally acceptable?
A mean parent will hurt their children regardless of which legal or illegal method they use as punishment. I just talked to my best friend who was spanked regularly by her stepdad as a kid. It wasn't painful, but incredibly degrading. She preferred being spanked over yelling though, because it would require her to respond the right way for him to stop or not get worse. But the worst punishment was being looked up in the attic. If my parents did that to me, I'd be seriously traumatized I wonder if this kind of punishment increased after spanking got illegal?
Since this is an international forum, I try to be diplomatic, but I can see how my responds looks pro spanking. I'm not, but I don't think people who do spank their children or consider doing it in good intention, deserves the harsh treatment.
I don't think scientific studies etc. saying it's harmful matters much, if spanking is common procedure within one society. Shame on the other hand, seems to be an effective decision-maker and indicator of what's culturally acceptable?
A mean parent will hurt their children regardless of which legal or illegal method they use as punishment. I just talked to my best friend who was spanked regularly by her stepdad as a kid. It wasn't painful, but incredibly degrading. She preferred being spanked over yelling though, because it would require her to respond the right way for him to stop or not get worse. But the worst punishment was being looked up in the attic. If my parents did that to me, I'd be seriously traumatized I wonder if this kind of punishment increased after spanking got illegal?
Since this is an international forum, I try to be diplomatic, but I can see how my responds looks pro spanking. I'm not, but I don't think people who do spank their children or consider doing it in good intention, deserves the harsh treatment.