I respect your opinion, however this is not the right thread for it.
I think it is, no? This IS the forum for debating these things. The other one is the 'safe haven'.
none of this has anything to do with what you INFJs are claiming you feel, and especially how you feel it.
I will assert instead that you subconsciously store patterns of how entities look and behave, linked with how it makes you feel. You then recall this feeling (or similar) based on the patterns you see in another entity.
The last bit sounds an awful lot like what would otherwise be called 'prejudice'.
Reality is not...real. So whilst matter is matter, it is also a much more fluid form of energy at the same time.
If you are tuned in to the perspective of solidity, you won't be sensitive to the energy.
But the energy is also manipulated by emotion because everything comes from consciousness and there are as many worlds are there are ways to perceive it.
There will never be the tangible evidence you want until you change your perception of the world or so many people do it that you do almost automatically.
But yes, even emotions carry real energy...as do the thoughts that carry a sponsoring emotion. Fear feels different from Love.
You can really do anything that you KNOW you can. But it is a kind of Knowing that is not stored in the memory or intellect.
The way very empathetic empaths can FEEL the emotions of people even if they are presenting themselves as though they feel fine is the closest 'real' comparison I can make.
The key to avoiding the 'spiky' feeling is to live in such a way that you radiate positive energy.
However, that comes from within and cannot truly be fabricated.
There is no supernatural. Only a poor definition of natural and a lack of education on the power of Human consciousness.