Straight INFJ Males

Perseus Shield and Sword said:
The biological differences makes a woman and a man function as a team for survival. We're like two puzzle pieces that fit together. A woman's body is built to create life they're about creating crafting nurturing as a general rule. Men are about death the opposite that's why we're opposite sex. For the hunters we go out we kill the food we stay at the camp to protect from Invaders so men are about death just look at the wars today who causes them?
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My brother. At this point I am not entirely sure if I am an INFJ, still I'd like to share my perspective. I entirely agree male and female are meant to function as a team. Polar opposites, the same but different in ways. Not just for survival, but for creation. We choose what we create or birth, whether it be with our speech, actions, sexual intercourse.

What is the main diffrence between male and females physically? Our reproductive organs. As above so below, obeserve and you will know. If two souls collide, a seed of their minds combined can give physical shape to a new soul, a baby.

The woman, mother our first teacher on earth, like wisdom, a guide nurturing. Father a giver, protecter, leader, like knowledge. note. true leadership is servant leadership. Just because man and woman are diffrent in ways does not make one better or worse. We are just better suited for diffrent jobs but can compliment and/or complete eachother. When knowledge and wisdom collide you get understanding. And now youre holding that baby in your hands, your souls being reflected as one.

I do not agree men are about death... Well not all, some might be. If you as a righteous male protect others and killed someone in an act of justice. Are you about death or about perserving life, love, justice? We as man can choose to farm land. We dont need to kill animals with souls just for a sensation in our mouth and fill our tummys. Don't get me wrong, I am not saying I am a saint or pointing fingers. I do eat meat, but having been vegetarian I did not experience a need for it physically. I went to the gym about 4 times a week and gained mass as was my goal back then perfectly fine.

What caused wars today? I think it is the ego in mankind in a negative state. Women are not void of ego. Each of us has to decide what we choose to create, to represent. The choice is yours.
 
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The ego seems to be the problem in modern society. Strip away the thin veneer of civilization, and see how quickly our primitive gender differences and roles becomes more apparent.
I'm just trying to explain that both male and female INFJs have the same cognitive functions, and that masculinity and femininity filters define the differences, so I wanted to explore how those filters might influence our unique differences as INFJs.
 
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Perseus Shield and Sword said:
You seem a little sensitive about what type is rare or not, rare isn't glamorous when a majority of the people find you odd and different, it's why I gravitated to INFJ forum not expecting to be butting heads with a non INFJ that can't agree with an INFJ perspective.
What's your take on male INFJs?
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I'm not sensitive about rarity, just facts. Hey I used to think I was INFJ, too, which is why I joined this forum. I would also speak about INFJs - as you do - in very positive terms. I still believe those things: INFJs seem to be wonderful people for the most part who get me. I am also in love with an INFJ woman. I understand your need to interact with your type and to feel understood, and if you would rather not interact with me because I'm not INFJ, then there's nothing I can do about that, but this forum supports the type journeys of individuals, whatever type they ultimately decide upon. INFJs are my tribe and the direction in which I'd like to grow, I hope you can understand that. There are always things we can learn from each other.

My take on the INFJ male is that they seem to be good, balanced dudes for the most part. Very kind and thoughtful, with excellent critical, philosophical minds. Some might struggle to assert themselves because of Fe, but that can easily be overcome with maturity and a bit of courage.

Perseus Shield and Sword said:
The ego seems to be the problem in modern society.
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Ego or will can be a powerful tool in the promotion of the good, especially in qualities like determination, and courage, &c.

Perseus Shield and Sword said:
Excuse me, I meant to say egotism. Not ego.
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Well corrected! I agree.
 
But all that just adds to the complexity of a personality whatever type. Gender instincts seems the most vague compared to nurture and nature, ethnicity, traumas, mutations, etc. Bottom line is male INFJs are most mysterious, complex, paradoxical and nurturers, and to most women that's sexy as hell. *smirk*
 
Milktoast Bandit said:
I don't know if anyone can claim being mysterious if they go around touting their mysteriousness
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It's the story of Blue Beard, women have an innate insatiable curiosity, so the more mysterious a man is, the more they want to unlock your secrets plus having passion for life which for males is masculinity energy.
 
Milktoast Bandit said:
Where's the mystery in saying, "I'm mysterious"?
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Plus the biggest seller of books for women are mystery romance novels. It's understanding the nature of women and to be mysterious you just do things out of the blue keep them more interested in you once you're predictable you're out.
So if you want to kick-start your relationship go take a class in college without telling your girlfriend she'll be wondering like wow why he doing that.
Better yet go read The Art of Seduction...
 
Perseus Shield and Sword said:
Plus the biggest seller of books for women are mystery romance novels. It's understanding the nature of women and to be mysterious you just do things out of the blue keep them more interested in you once you're predictable you're out.
So if you want to kick-start your relationship go take a class in college without telling your girlfriend she'll be wondering like wow why he doing that.
Better yet go read The Art of Seduction...
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@Milktoast Bandit is saying that you keep pointing out how mysterious you are, and that is oxymoronic.

It's a bit like talking for hours about how laconic one is.
 
I'm just saying that infj males have an advantage because we have multiple layers within our personalities that needs to be unlocked if you want to get to know us... we are naturally mysterious even to ourselves
 
Perseus Shield and Sword said:
By the way dude I know what you are and I'm not going to play your game anymore.
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Milktoast Bandit said:
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