Test your standards

I dunno. I think there's a distinct difference between being in love and friendship -- and I could see how someone could be in love without wanting to do the dirty.
 
I dunno. I think there's a distinct difference between being in love and friendship -- and I could see how someone could be in love without wanting to do the dirty.


It seems to me that people consider sex "dirty" or "sickening".
 
You're right.
 
Not me! :m154: I nominate you!

So you're a lesbian? That really makes sense; now I understand why you come off as a women yet like women.
Shai Gar already fixed it by making poll threads.

I'm glad I still come off as a woman. Sometimes I wonder if people who don't know me and read about me talking about chicks think I'm a guy, and now I know. Thanks! :)
 
Someone of a different race? Yes
Someone who was deaf? No (I'm a bastard. I once ran away from a deaf man who tried to talk to me in a park.)
Someone who was blind? No.
Someone who was missing a limb? I'd consider it
Someone with a facial deformity? Probably not. They had better have a fantastic personality.
Someone with an incurable STD? Certainly not!
Someone who is bisexual? I don't really see someone bisexual wanting to be long-term with a straight like me. So no.
Someone with questionable hygiene? No
Someone who smokes? Yes.
Someone with a lot of tattoos? For sure.
Someone with a lot of piercings? For sure.
Someone who is a bad dresser? Ha! Of course.
Someone who is poor? Yes.
Someone who is very rich? No.
Someone who is very hairy? I like 'em hairy. Yes.
Someone who has a lot of acne? No.
Someone who looks just like your parent? Gross no.
Someone who is considerably overweight? No. I like to do things like run around outside and hike and whatsuch.
Someone who is considerably underweight? No. I'd crush him.
Someone who is bulked up with muscle? Too unnatural. No.
Someone who was very short? No.
Someone who was very tall? Heck yes!


Someone who is cheap? No. There's a difference between frugal and responsible and cheap. No.
Someone who is homophobic? NO!
Someone who is racist? NO!
Someone who lacks a sense of humor? I wouldn't be attracted to them. No.
Someone who uses poor grammar/speech? Heh. No way.
Someone who cusses? I don't care. I'd date them.
Someone who occasionally says dumb things at embarrassing moments? I WOULD LOVE IT!! YES!
Someone who has had a history of mental illness? Depends how they're currently caring for it.
Someone who has had a history of substance abuse? I have. Yes. If they're clean.
Someone of a different religion/spiritual belief system? That's all I ever date. Yes.
Someone with opposing political beliefs? No. He'd annoy me.
Someone who gossips? Ew. No.
Someone who has a mental disability? NO.
Someone who isn't too intelligent? NOOO!
Someone who is far more intelligent than you? Heck yes! That's hot.
Someone who is arrogant? I like a little arrogance. Yes.
Someone who is a pushover? No. I have a strong personality and I'd crush them.
 
YES:
Someone of a different race?
Someone who was missing a limb?
Someone who is bisexual?
Someone who smokes?
Someone with a lot of tattoos?
Someone with a lot of piercings?
Someone who is a bad dresser?
Someone who is poor?
Someone who is very rich?
Someone who is very hairy?
Someone who is bulked up with muscle?
Someone who was very short?
Someone who was very tall?
Someone who cusses?
Someone who is far more intelligent than you?
Someone who has had a history of mental illness?

MAYBE/UNSURE:
Someone with a facial deformity?
Someone who was deaf?
Someone who was blind?
Someone who has a lot of acne?
Someone of a different religion/spiritual belief system?
Someone with opposing political beliefs?
Someone who has a mental disability?
Someone who has had a history of substance abuse?

NO:
Someone who looks just like your parent?
Someone who is cheap?
Someone who is homophobic?
Someone who is racist?
Someone who lacks a sense of humor?
Someone who uses poor grammar/speech?
Someone who isn't too intelligent?
Someone who is arrogant?
Someone who is a pushover?
Someone who gossips?
Someone who occasionally says dumb things at embarrassing moments?
 
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Given that a person is a wonderful human being on the inside, could your form a romantic relationship with...

Someone of a different race? yes
Someone who was deaf? yes
Someone who was blind? no
Someone who was missing a limb? yes
Someone with a facial deformity? no
Someone with an incurable STD? no
Someone who is bisexual? yes
Someone with questionable hygiene? no...
Someone who smokes? no
Someone with a lot of tattoos? no
Someone with a lot of piercings? yes
Someone who is a bad dresser? yes
Someone who is poor? yes
Someone who is very rich? YES
Someone who is very hairy? no
Someone who has a lot of acne? no
Someone who looks just like your parent? no
Someone who is considerably overweight? no
Someone who is considerably underweight? yes
Someone who is bulked up with muscle? no
Someone who was very short? yes
Someone who was very tall? yes

Given that a person was very attractive, could your form a romantic relationship with...

Someone who is cheap? yes
Someone who is homophobic? yes
Someone who is racist? no
Someone who lacks a sense of humor? yes
Someone who uses poor grammar/speech? no
Someone who cusses? yes
Someone who occasionally says dumb things at embarrassing moments? yes
Someone who has had a history of mental illness? yes
Someone who has had a history of substance abuse? no
Someone of a different religion/spiritual belief system?no
Someone with opposing political beliefs? yes
Someone who gossips? no
Someone who has a mental disability? no
Someone who isn't too intelligent? no
Someone who is far more intelligent than you? yes
Someone who is arrogant? no
Someone who is a pushover? yes
 
Someone of a different race? - No
Someone who was deaf? - Open to the idea
Someone who was blind? - Sure why not
Someone who was missing a limb? - No
Someone with a facial deformity? - No
Someone with an incurable STD? - No.
Someone who is bisexual? - Experimented? Yes. Bi for real? No
Someone with questionable hygiene? - No.
Someone who smokes? - Yes
Someone with a lot of tattoos? - Yes.
Someone with a lot of piercings? -Yes
Someone who is a bad dresser? - Depends how bad
Someone who is poor? - Yes.
Someone who is very rich? - Yes.
Someone who is very hairy? - NO
Someone who has a lot of acne? - No.
Someone who looks just like your parent? - I don't know.
Someone who is considerably overweight? - No
Someone who is considerably underweight? - Yes
Someone who is bulked up with muscle? - Yes
Someone who was very short? - Yes
Someone who was very tall? - Yes

Given that a person was very attractive, could your form a romantic relationship with...

Someone who is cheap?
- No
Someone who is homophobic? - Yes
Someone who is racist? - Yes
Someone who lacks a sense of humor? - Yes
Someone who uses poor grammar/speech? -No
Someone who cusses? - Yes
Someone who occasionally says dumb things at embarrassing moments? Yes
Someone who has had a history of mental illness? - Yes
Someone who has had a history of substance abuse? - No
Someone of a different religion/spiritual belief system? - Yes.
Someone with opposing political beliefs? - Maybe.
Someone who gossips? - Maybe.
Someone who has a mental disability? - Depends
Someone who isn't too intelligent? - No.
Someone who is far more intelligent than you? - Yes.
Someone who is arrogant? - Yes.
Someone who is a pushover? - NO
 
Someone of a different race? Y
Someone who was deaf? Y
Someone who was blind? Y
Someone who was missing a limb? Y
Someone with a facial deformity? Y
Someone with an incurable STD? N
Someone who is bisexual? N. I will not be sharing my man with anyone else.
Someone with questionable hygiene? N
Someone who smokes? If he
 
Given that a person is a wonderful human being on the inside, could your form a romantic relationship with...

Someone of a different race? Yes
Someone who was deaf? Yes, I'm bad on the phone anyway
Someone who was blind? Yes, simpe yes
Someone who was missing a limb? Maybe, depends which limb it was
Someone with a facial deformity? No
Someone with an incurable STD? No
Someone who is bisexual? Yes
Someone with questionable hygiene? No, just nasty
Someone who smokes? Yes, as long as they don't smoke around me
Someone with a lot of tattoos? Yes
Someone with a lot of piercings? Maybe, depends where they were
Someone who is a bad dresser? Yes
Someone who is poor? Yes
Someone who is very rich? Yes
Someone who is very hairy? Yes
Someone who has a lot of acne? Yes
Someone who looks just like your parent? Maybe not...
Someone who is considerably overweight? No
Someone who is considerably underweight? That's a maybe
Someone who is bulked up with muscle? Sure
Someone who was very short? Yes
Someone who was very tall? Yes

Given that a person was very attractive, could your form a romantic relationship with...

Someone who is cheap? Yes
Someone who is homophobic? No
Someone who is racist? No
Someone who lacks a sense of humor? Yes
Someone who uses poor grammar/speech? No
Someone who cusses? Do you mean swearing or insulting?? Yes to the swearing, no to the insults
Someone who occasionally says dumb things at embarrassing moments? Yes
Someone who has had a history of mental illness? Depends on the illness
Someone who has had a history of substance abuse? Depends on their current circumstances (still using drugs, STDs)
Someone of a different religion/spiritual belief system? Yes
Someone with opposing political beliefs? Yes
Someone who gossips? Yes and No, depends on the level of gossip
Someone who has a mental disability? No
Someone who isn't too intelligent? No
Someone who is far more intelligent than you? If theyre happy with my level of intelligence then yes
Someone who is arrogant? No
Someone who is a pushover? Yes... I suppose since I can be a pushover too
 
Someone of a different race? Done
Someone who was deaf? I'd have to learn a second language. Probably not.
Someone who was blind? Maybe
Someone who was missing a limb?Done
Someone with a facial deformity? Depends on what and where
Someone with an incurable STD?Probably not
Someone who is bisexual? Done
Someone with questionable hygiene? No way
Someone who smokes? No way
Someone with a lot of tattoos? Define 'alot.' It would depend on how many and how tasteful/artful they are.
Someone with a lot of piercings? Again, define 'alot.' Maybe a few.
Someone who is a bad dresser? Done. Many times over.
Someone who is poor? Sure
Someone who is very rich? Not likely but sure
Someone who is very hairy? Yum. And done.
Someone who has a lot of acne? Ew. This is a problem.
Someone who looks just like your parent? No. That would freak me out.
Someone who is considerably overweight?Done
Someone who is considerably underweight? Probably not
Someone who is bulked up with muscle? That's a little Ew for me
Someone who was very short? Couldn't do it
Someone who was very tall? The tallest guy I ever dated was 6'7". That was pushing it for me, but I did it and it was totally worth it.

Given that a person was very attractive, could your form a romantic relationship with...

Someone who is cheap? One person's cheap is another person's frugal. Sure
Someone who is homophobic? If they are aware of this conditioning and are working to undo it, sure.
Someone who is racist? If they are aware of this conditioning and are working to undo it, sure.
Someone who lacks a sense of humor? No
Someone who uses poor grammar/speech? That's a deal breaker for me.
Someone who cusses? Sure
Someone who occasionally says dumb things at embarrassing moments? Who hasn't done this? Sure
Someone who has had a history of mental illness? Depends on what it is. A mild short-term depression, sure. Chronic psychotic disorder. No.
Someone who has had a history of substance abuse? Are they sober now? For more than a year? Depends on what it was, and Maybe.
Someone of a different religion/spiritual belief system? Done. So long as they don't try to convert me, it's not an issue.
Someone with opposing political beliefs? In this political climate? Sadly it's a deal breaker.
Someone who gossips? Who hasn't done that? As long as it's not a habit, sure.
Someone who has a mental disability? What does that mean - developmental disability? You already mentioned mental illness. I could not see myself dating anyone with DD.
Someone who isn't too intelligent? No
Someone who is far more intelligent than you? Done and it was a disaster. Won't happen again.
Someone who is arrogant? Done once. Will never do it again.
Someone who is a pushover? As long as they don't let me get away with too much, sure.
 
Given that a person is a wonderful human being on the inside, could your form a romantic relationship with...

Someone of a different race? Yes
Someone who was deaf? Yes
Someone who was blind? Yes
Someone who was missing a limb? Yes
Someone with a facial deformity? No
Someone with an incurable STD? No
Someone who is bisexual? Yes (I am myself)
Someone with questionable hygiene? No
Someone who smokes? Yes
Someone with a lot of tattoos? Yes
Someone with a lot of piercings? Yes
Someone who is a bad dresser? Yes
Someone who is poor? Yes
Someone who is very rich? Yes
Someone who is very hairy? No
Someone who has a lot of acne? No
Someone who looks just like your parent? No
Someone who is considerably overweight? No
Someone who is considerably underweight? Yes (I am myself)
Someone who is bulked up with muscle? Yes
Someone who was very short? Yes
Someone who was very tall? Yes


Given that a person was very attractive, could your form a romantic relationship with...

Someone who is cheap? Yes
Someone who is homophobic? No
Someone who is racist? No
Someone who lacks a sense of humor? No
Someone who uses poor grammar/speech? No
Someone who cusses? Yes
Someone who occasionally says dumb things at embarrassing moments? Yes (Who doesn't?)
Someone who has had a history of mental illness? It depends
Someone who has had a history of substance abuse? No
Someone of a different religion/spiritual belief system? No (I say no, but it would really depend on how devout they were and how they viewed my views)
Someone with opposing political beliefs? Yes
Someone who gossips? Yes
Someone who has a mental disability? It depends
Someone who isn't too intelligent? No
Someone who is far more intelligent than you? Yes (I prefer this)
Someone who is arrogant? No
Someone who is a pushover? No
 
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Given that a person is a wonderful human being on the inside, could your form a romantic relationship with...

Someone of a different race? Yes
Someone who was deaf? Yes
Someone who was blind? Yes
Someone who was missing a limb? Yes
Someone with a facial deformity? Yes
Someone with an incurable STD? No
Someone who is bisexual? Yes
Someone with questionable hygiene? Yes, but I'd make them unquestion it.
Someone who smokes? Yes
Someone with a lot of tattoos? Yes
Someone with a lot of piercings? Yes
Someone who is a bad dresser? Yes
Someone who is poor? Yes
Someone who is very rich? Yes
Someone who is very hairy? Hairy for a girl? Yes Hairy for a guy? No
Someone who has a lot of acne? Yes
Someone who looks just like your parent? No (I have LOTS of reasons for this beyond the normal issues)
Someone who is considerably overweight? No
Someone who is considerably underweight? Yes
Someone who is bulked up with muscle? Yes
Someone who was very short? Yes
Someone who was very tall? Yes


Given that a person was very attractive, could your form a romantic relationship with...

Someone who is cheap? Yes
Someone who is homophobic? Yes
Someone who is racist? Yes
Someone who lacks a sense of humor? No
Someone who uses poor grammar/speech? Yes
Someone who cusses? Yes
Someone who occasionally says dumb things at embarrassing moments? Yes
Someone who has had a history of mental illness? It depends on the illness. Something treatable? Absolutely. Untreatable? No
Someone who has had a history of substance abuse? So long as it is a history and not a present
Someone of a different religion/spiritual belief system? No
Someone with opposing political beliefs? Yes
Someone who gossips? Yes
Someone who has a mental disability? It depends on the disability, but for the most part yes
Someone who isn't too intelligent? No
Someone who is far more intelligent than you? Yes
Someone who is arrogant? Yes
Someone who is a pushover? Yes
 
Given that a person is a wonderful human being on the inside, could your form a romantic relationship with...

Someone of a different race? Yes
Someone who was deaf? No
Someone who was blind? No
Someone who was missing a limb? No
Someone with a facial deformity? It depends if it hinders the attraction
Someone with an incurable STD? No
Someone who is bisexual? No
Someone with questionable hygiene? No
Someone who smokes? No
Someone with a lot of tattoos? Yes
Someone with a lot of piercings? Maybe
Someone who is a bad dresser? I'll teach him how to dress.
Someone who is poor? Yes
Someone who is very rich? Yes
Someone who is very hairy? Maybe
Someone who has a lot of acne? No
Someone who looks just like your parent? No
Someone who is considerably overweight? As long as they're not obese and they carry it well.
Someone who is considerably underweight? No, sorry its too much of a turn-off to me.
Someone who is bulked up with muscle? As long as it doesn't look like it's steroids.
Someone who was very short? No
Someone who was very tall? Yes

Given that a person was very attractive, could your form a romantic relationship with...

Someone who is cheap? No
Someone who is homophobic? Yes
Someone who is racist? No
Someone who lacks a sense of humor? No
Someone who uses poor grammar/speech? Probably not.
Someone who cusses? Probably as long as its not excessive.
Someone who occasionally says dumb things at embarrassing moments? Yes
Someone who has had a history of mental illness? Depends on what the illnesses were.
Someone who has had a history of substance abuse? Depends on if they're over it and what they still carry from it.
Someone of a different religion/spiritual belief system? No
Someone with opposing political beliefs? Yes
Someone who gossips? Probably not.
Someone who has a mental disability? Probably not.
Someone who isn't too intelligent? Probably not.
Someone who is far more intelligent than you? Yes
Someone who is arrogant? Probably, unless they're really arrogant.
Someone who is a pushover? I can tolerate that only for a while, long term, I cannot tolerate it, so no.
 
Given that a person is a wonderful human being on the inside, could your form a romantic relationship with...

Someone of a different race? Yes
Someone who was deaf? Yes
Someone who was blind? Yes
Someone who was missing a limb? Yes
Someone with a facial deformity? Yes
Someone with an incurable STD? Yes
Someone who is bisexual? Yes, assuming they could limit themselves if I was uncomfortable with it.
Someone with questionable hygiene? Probably not.
Someone who smokes? Yes
Someone with a lot of tattoos? Yes
Someone with a lot of piercings? Yes
Someone who is a bad dresser? Yes
Someone who is poor? Yes
Someone who is very rich? Yes
Someone who is very hairy? No
Someone who has a lot of acne? No
Someone who looks just like your parent? No
Someone who is considerably overweight? Yes
Someone who is considerably underweight? Questionable
Someone who is bulked up with muscle? Probably not.
Someone who was very short? Yes
Someone who was very tall? Yes

Given that a person was very attractive, could your form a romantic relationship with...

Someone who is cheap? Yes
Someone who is homophobic? Yes
Someone who is racist? Hell no
Someone who lacks a sense of humor? Hell no
Someone who uses poor grammar/speech? Probably not
Someone who cusses? Yes
Someone who occasionally says dumb things at embarrassing moments? Hard to tell
Someone who has had a history of mental illness? Probably not
Someone who has had a history of substance abuse? Yes
Someone of a different religion/spiritual belief system? Yes
Someone with opposing political beliefs? Yes
Someone who gossips? Extensively? Probably not.
Someone who has a mental disability? Depends
Someone who isn't too intelligent? No
Someone who is far more intelligent than you? Yes
Someone who is arrogant? No
Someone who is a pushover? Yes
 
Given that a person is a wonderful human being on the inside, could your form a romantic relationship with...

Someone of a different race? Yes
Someone who was deaf? Yes
Someone who was blind? Yes
Someone who was missing a limb? Yes
Someone with a facial deformity? Probably
Someone with an incurable STD? No, unlikely
Someone who is bisexual? Yes
Someone with questionable hygiene? No
Someone who smokes? No; I can't stand the smell.
Someone with a lot of tattoos? Not my style, but yeah
Someone with a lot of piercings? Not entirely my style, but yeah
Someone who is a bad dresser? Yeah
Someone who is poor? Yes
Someone who is very rich? Yes
Someone who is very hairy? Define "very"
Someone who has a lot of acne? Probably not
Someone who looks just like your parent? No
Someone who is considerably overweight? There is a limit, but yes
Someone who is considerably underweight? Again, there is a limit, but yes
Someone who is bulked up with muscle? Same as previous 2
Someone who was very short? Unlikely
Someone who was very tall? Possibly

Given that a person was very attractive, could your form a romantic relationship with...

Someone who is cheap? No
Someone who is homophobic? No
Someone who is racist? No
Someone who lacks a sense of humor? No
Someone who uses poor grammar/speech? Possibly, but it's a turn off and I would probably annoy them with my corrections
Someone who cusses? Possible, but another turn off
Someone who occasionally says dumb things at embarrassing moments? Depends on how dumb
Someone who has had a history of mental illness? Depends on the mental illness and its severity
Someone who has had a history of substance abuse? I'd be wary
Someone of a different religion/spiritual belief system? Yes
Someone with opposing political beliefs? Probably not
Someone who gossips? No
Someone who has a mental disability? No; compatibility is a must, and depending on the severity of the disability, it might feel unethical
Someone who isn't too intelligent? No, it's unlikely unless we were able to communicate
Someone who is far more intelligent than you? Yes, if we were still able to communicate
Someone who is arrogant? A little is okay, a lot is not
Someone who is a pushover? No
 
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Let's measure INFJ standards. Be honest now.

Given that a person is a wonderful human being on the inside, could your form a romantic relationship with...

Yes:
Someone of a different race?
Someone who is bisexual?
Someone who is a bad dresser? (as long as they are comfortable in who they are, I don't see why it should matter to me)
Someone who looks just like your parent?
Someone who was very tall?
Someone who is very rich?
Someone who is very hairy?
Someone who has a lot of acne?

No:
Someone with an incurable STD?
Someone who smokes?
Someone with a lot of tattoos?
Someone with a lot of piercings?
Someone who is considerably overweight?
Someone who is considerably underweight?
Someone who is bulked up with muscle?
Someone who was very short?
Someone with questionable hygiene?
(I'm a bit of a hygiene freak, so no...it would probably repulse me)

It's hard to say unless I'm confronted with the situation:
Someone who was missing a limb?
Someone who was deaf?
Someone who was blind?
Someone with a facial deformity?
Someone who is poor?
(it depends on whether on not they're living comfortably, ie. they're not struggling for things which are essentials such as food/clothing/decent living space)


Given that a person was very attractive, could your form a romantic relationship with...

Yes:
Someone who is far more intelligent than you?
Someone who occasionally says dumb things at embarrassing moments? (It would be hypocritical of me to say no)
Someone with opposing political beliefs?
(I'm not really interested in politics, so I guess it would be okay)
Someone of a different religion/spiritual belief system?
(As long as we were accepting of each others' beliefs)

Someone who cusses?
(As long as it doesn't happen all the time)
Someone who gossips?
(Same as above)



No:
Someone who is homophobic?
Someone who has had a history of substance abuse?
Someone who is arrogant?
Someone who is racist?
Someone who isn't too intelligent?
Someone who lacks a sense of humor?
Someone who uses poor grammar/speech?
Someone who is cheap? (I'd like someone who is neither cheap nor very materialistic, so somewhere in the middle would be good)
Someone who is a pushover? (I want someone who's assertive...so that they can make up for my weakness in this area sometimes, and so that I can further improve my assertiveness)

It's hard to say unless I'm confronted with the situation:
Someone who has had a history of mental illness?
(as long as they're being treated for it)

Someone who has a mental disability?
(depends on what it is/ how bad it is)


Great questions!
They really made me think...and consequently took ages to answer.
 
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Given that a person is a wonderful human being on the inside, could your form a romantic relationship with...

Someone of a different race? Why is that even a question? I can't honestly believe people still care about that.
Someone who was deaf? Sure, all I have to do is learn sign language. We'll train an assistance dog so they don't have to rely on me too much.
Someone who was blind? Again, there's no reason why not.
Someone who was missing a limb? Sure. I don't much care about aesthetics, and functionality can always be improved upon.
Someone with a facial deformity? See above: I don't much care about aesthetics.
Someone with an incurable STD? Don't see why I'd care; I'm not gonna do anything to catch it. I'd worry about hospital care, though, and, pragmatically speaking, I don't want to be in a long-term relationship with someone who's just gonna die on me, but I suppose this will be the whatzidcalled, --love, that's it-- and my reason won't be working to its optimum.
Someone who is bisexual? Again, I'm not entirely sure why this would be an issue.
Someone with questionable hygiene? ...No, I don't think so. There is a standard of personal cleanliness humans with access to soap and running hot water should just adhere to without saying.
Someone who smokes? Yes, although I'd try to get them to agree to boundaries and rules about where they can smoke and when (around me).
Someone with a lot of tattoos? What of? I'd think that was quite cool, as long as I don't find any swastikas with 'KKK' written under them.
Someone with a lot of piercings? Quite cool, again.
Someone who is a bad dresser? Wouldn't even notice. Really, I wouldn't.
Someone who is poor? Yes, although it would be nice not to be poor for once in my life...
Someone who is very rich? Yes. We're already assuming they're a nice person, so what is there to worry about? I know how to work (in case something happens); I'd probably prefer to do so anyway just to get out and away every day.
Someone who is very hairy? As long as they show no inclinations to howl at the moon, and there are no mysterious monster myths hanging around their home area. =P Seriously, no, I wouldn't care.
Someone who has a lot of acne? No, but I'd help them find a medical treatment for that, if they didn't object.
Someone who looks just like your parent? Be kinda creepy. Depends on how similar and which parent, and also on whether there are any similarities between their personalities.
Someone who is considerably overweight? ...Up to a certain point, but the cut-off is pretty low.
Someone who is considerably underweight? Again, to a certain point. If I thought there was something wrong with them, I'd avoid getting into a relationship just to avoid complicating their lives; that's not healthy, and they'd need help.
Someone who is bulked up with muscle? Sure, don't mind.
Someone who was very short? I'm "very short". Unless you mean a dwarf or something. In which case, no, I'd probably alienate them forever the first time we met, when I'd point at them and day "hey, look, I'm looking down at someone; take a picture, quick!" in a brilliant, rare instance of Total Fe FAIL. If I were lucky, I'd get away with all my teeth.
Someone who was very tall? My neck might not thank me for it, but I don't see an inherent problem arising from that.

Given that a person was very attractive, could your form a romantic relationship with...

Actually, take this as overriding everything below. I gave my answers, since I didn't want to be useless and I did want to contribute my opinions to the poll, but the answer to everything below is NO. Given only that someone is very attractive, I have no reason to form a romantic relationship with them at all. Looks don't make anyone into a good life partner, or a trustworthy support.

Someone who is cheap? Yes, as long as they respect that my money is mine, to do with as I please, and as long as they're sensible about it (no jumping at false economies).
Someone who is homophobic? No. Flat-out dealbreaker: if you can't get along with my friends, you don't belong anywhere near me.
Someone who is racist? Again, no.
Someone who lacks a sense of humor? No, probably not. Indeed, even if they have a sense of humor, it may not include what I would call humor...
Someone who uses poor grammar/speech? NO. KILL.
Someone who cusses? Sure. I know I do, quite casually. Words only have the power you give them.
Someone who occasionally says dumb things at embarrassing moments? How dumb? Although, generally, no: I don't need anyone to create awkward moments for me! :D
Someone who has had a history of mental illness? Depends on the illness and how they've handled it in the past.
Someone who has had a history of substance abuse? Depends on the substance and how they're handling it now/why they started to use it.
Someone of a different religion/spiritual belief system? As long as they don't try to change my beliefs. Start doing that, and it's the tiger pit for them.
Someone with opposing political beliefs? People can think politics is worth their time if they like. They'll just have to get used to me tuning out every time they mention it.
Someone who gossips? Probably not. Trust would be paramount, and I can't trust someone whose jaw is hung on a greasy hinge.
Someone who has a mental disability? Depends on the disability itself and whether or not I'd have to be the equivalent of a live-in nurse.
Someone who isn't too intelligent? Intelligence is no judge of character.
Someone who is far more intelligent than you? See above. I might actually enjoy learning from them, so long as I had my own things to be good at, where I wasn't upstaged.
Someone who is arrogant? Probably not. My pet name for them would wind up being derogatory, in a very unsubtle way.
Someone who is a pushover? I might not even notice, since I tend to just circumvent/outright avoid/respect before they're vocalised people's assertations anyway, depending on the person and the situation. There's a risk I'd trample them without even noticing, though, just taking it as generosity and not realising they're just spineless, not completely selfless.

EDIT: I'm not voting in the polls, by the way: I wanted to answer, but since you're trying to scrutinise INFJ standards, I'd just mess up your data.
 
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Given that a person is a wonderful human being on the inside, could your form a romantic relationship with...
Hmmm...
Someone who was missing a limb? .....how far? Would it affect his physical activities? Would it affect his aethestic value?
Someone with a facial deformity? I..tend to prefer to look at someone's face. Probably no for this one (I'm admittedly pretty shallow in this one D:)
Someone with an incurable STD? Incurable? Is it contagious? If yes, no. And does that a result of promiscuity / TOO MUCH promiscuity? Because neglect of someone's health is bad.
Someone with questionable hygiene? if they're unchangeable...no.
Someone with a lot of piercings? Can you take a few of the piercings here and there, please? :)
Someone who is a bad dresser? Then it's time to play fashion designer and stylist. :P
Someone who is poor? Depends; I probably wouldn't accept extreme poverty (or he could live in mine) but definitely not if they showed golddigger tendencies. And not when I'm financially unavailable to sustain two persons.
Someone who has a lot of acne? Honey, this is facial medicine. USE IT.
Someone who looks just like your parent? errrrrr...how...much? >_>;
Someone who is considerably overweight? Well then, let us diet together!
Someone who was very short? How short? If that's dwarfism, probably not. But if it's only, nah, 20 cms shorter, then why not? :P
Someone who was very tall? How tall? If gigantism, probably not; but if it's like, 20 cms taller, I think...it's...a..turn-on. I think.

Yes.
Someone of a different race?
Someone who was deaf? We can learn sign language & walk with pen and paper everyday.
Someone who was blind? Well, I don't really like to go out much, so I think we'll be fine if you don't like to go out..
Someone who is bisexual?
Someone who smokes?
Someone with a lot of tattoos? tattoos are cool; the associations aren't, but if that someone doesn't seem to be that kind of person...
Someone who is very rich?
Someone who is very hairy?
Someone who is considerably underweight?great; a reason to cook sinfully calorie-laden food.
Someone who is bulked up with muscle?

Given that a person was very attractive, could your form a romantic relationship with...

Someone who is cheap? How cheap? As long as not cheap enough to twotimes me, suure.
Someone who is homophobic? .....as much as the novelty value and the romantic value of being a love martyr had been told, NO.
Someone who is racist? To whose race?
Someone who lacks a sense of humor? Well, we can : a) learn to have a better sense of humor together, or b) have serious conversation every single time, so Yes.
Someone who uses poor grammar/speech? If you can learn to speak like a human being, then sure.
Someone who cusses? Sure.
Someone who occasionally says dumb things at embarrassing moments? As long as I can talk / warn / scold you about it, sure.
Someone who has had a history of mental illness? what mental illness ? But probably not.
Someone who has had a history of substance abuse? Uuuuuh....no?
Someone of a different religion/spiritual belief system?As long as you don't demean mine, sure.
Someone with opposing political beliefs?as long as we can agree to disagree, sure.
Someone who gossips? as long as it's not me. Sure.
Someone who has a mental disability?I don't think so. No.
Someone who isn't too intelligent? Probably not...
Someone who is far more intelligent than you? Why should I reject you, again? SURE.I love to learn.
Someone who is arrogant? uuuh, no.
Someone who is a pushover? uuuuuh, how far?
 
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