gloomy-optimist
Used to live here
- MBTI
- INxJ
- Enneagram
- 4w3
I dunno. I think there's a distinct difference between being in love and friendship -- and I could see how someone could be in love without wanting to do the dirty.
I dunno. I think there's a distinct difference between being in love and friendship -- and I could see how someone could be in love without wanting to do the dirty.
Shai Gar already fixed it by making poll threads.Not me! I nominate you!
So you're a lesbian? That really makes sense; now I understand why you come off as a women yet like women.
Let's measure INFJ standards. Be honest now.
Given that a person is a wonderful human being on the inside, could your form a romantic relationship with...
Yes:
Someone of a different race?
Someone who is bisexual?
Someone who is a bad dresser? (as long as they are comfortable in who they are, I don't see why it should matter to me)
Someone who looks just like your parent?
Someone who was very tall?
Someone who is very rich?
Someone who is very hairy?
Someone who has a lot of acne?
No:
Someone with an incurable STD?
Someone who smokes?
Someone with a lot of tattoos?
Someone with a lot of piercings?
Someone who is considerably overweight?
Someone who is considerably underweight?
Someone who is bulked up with muscle?
Someone who was very short?
Someone with questionable hygiene?
(I'm a bit of a hygiene freak, so no...it would probably repulse me)
It's hard to say unless I'm confronted with the situation:
Someone who was missing a limb?
Someone who was deaf?
Someone who was blind?
Someone with a facial deformity?
Someone who is poor?
(it depends on whether on not they're living comfortably, ie. they're not struggling for things which are essentials such as food/clothing/decent living space)
Given that a person was very attractive, could your form a romantic relationship with...
Yes:
Someone who is far more intelligent than you?
Someone who occasionally says dumb things at embarrassing moments? (It would be hypocritical of me to say no)
Someone with opposing political beliefs?
(I'm not really interested in politics, so I guess it would be okay)
Someone of a different religion/spiritual belief system?
(As long as we were accepting of each others' beliefs)
Someone who cusses?
(As long as it doesn't happen all the time)
Someone who gossips?
(Same as above)
No:
Someone who is homophobic?
Someone who has had a history of substance abuse?
Someone who is arrogant?
Someone who is racist?
Someone who isn't too intelligent?
Someone who lacks a sense of humor?
Someone who uses poor grammar/speech?
Someone who is cheap? (I'd like someone who is neither cheap nor very materialistic, so somewhere in the middle would be good)
Someone who is a pushover? (I want someone who's assertive...so that they can make up for my weakness in this area sometimes, and so that I can further improve my assertiveness)
It's hard to say unless I'm confronted with the situation:
Someone who has had a history of mental illness?
(as long as they're being treated for it)
Someone who has a mental disability?
(depends on what it is/ how bad it is)
Great questions!
They really made me think...and consequently took ages to answer.