I had a look at this thread and I think this 'issue' is not really about bathrooms, it's about equality. The trans gender community (like other groups) are treated badly. I think it is noble that some people in authority are trying to do something to advance their cause, not because they are 'trans' but because they are human beings, like you or I.
For years I knew a guy, taller than me, popular with women, good at sports (naturally I hated him..). He was a very warm, artistic man, I knew him from age 11. Years later, after I was married he wrote to me. He was transgender and had, after years of therapy unknown to me, decided to make the transition. I was shocked to the point, whether I even wondered if it was a joke of some kind? It wasn't. After I realized the torment and pain she'd been through, it made me realize what a deep, powerful urge people in that position must feel. To take on that big a change, and face the disapproval of so many ? Who has that kind of courage?
I mentioned that, and her response, was when you have 'no choice' it does not take courage. I understand the fears that people have, but really, is that based on evidence? I doubt there has ever been any kind of meaningful study of the use of bathrooms by 'trans' people. To force women (and they are women) to use men's toilets, or go to men's prisons? I would like to think society has made more progress than that. As for criminals abusing the rules? Don't they do that anyway, whatever the rules? As for criminal men dressing up as women to invade women's bathrooms ? Sadly they do not need to do anything that bizarre to attack and assault women, if that is their intention. Also, it would not need a change in the law for them to do that anyway.
Don't think I would disregard the safety of women, children or anyone 'to be politically correct'. However I do think using objectivity and compassion in decision making is important. I can't help but think, in 20-30 years we might (if we're all still on this forum... who knows huh?) look back on this subject in disbelief, that once there was a time, when trans women or men, were forced to use toilets where they felt, unsafe and humiliated. Time will tell, I guess.
For years I knew a guy, taller than me, popular with women, good at sports (naturally I hated him..). He was a very warm, artistic man, I knew him from age 11. Years later, after I was married he wrote to me. He was transgender and had, after years of therapy unknown to me, decided to make the transition. I was shocked to the point, whether I even wondered if it was a joke of some kind? It wasn't. After I realized the torment and pain she'd been through, it made me realize what a deep, powerful urge people in that position must feel. To take on that big a change, and face the disapproval of so many ? Who has that kind of courage?
I mentioned that, and her response, was when you have 'no choice' it does not take courage. I understand the fears that people have, but really, is that based on evidence? I doubt there has ever been any kind of meaningful study of the use of bathrooms by 'trans' people. To force women (and they are women) to use men's toilets, or go to men's prisons? I would like to think society has made more progress than that. As for criminals abusing the rules? Don't they do that anyway, whatever the rules? As for criminal men dressing up as women to invade women's bathrooms ? Sadly they do not need to do anything that bizarre to attack and assault women, if that is their intention. Also, it would not need a change in the law for them to do that anyway.
Don't think I would disregard the safety of women, children or anyone 'to be politically correct'. However I do think using objectivity and compassion in decision making is important. I can't help but think, in 20-30 years we might (if we're all still on this forum... who knows huh?) look back on this subject in disbelief, that once there was a time, when trans women or men, were forced to use toilets where they felt, unsafe and humiliated. Time will tell, I guess.