Oh, then there's my favorite. This has come up a lot lately. "You're not girlfriend material. I bet you're a great lay, though." I am honestly not sure why this is.[/QUOTE]
hmm i've not been told that in those words but i have been told, before even really dating someone, "I don't love you. I would never love you. You can hang out and tag along if you want, but this isn't going anywhere. My ex-girlfriend was a real psycho. But you're not my girlfriend, I don't want that title."
i've been started off this way twice, n both times it's really me who's detached. so i just hang out for my own reasons, right, then out of nowhere these dudes (both at very different moments in my life) eventually can't get enough of me. of course, being so sensitive, i never get over it and my insides never were able to fully commit to either