Cheers
@April Yes I know exactly what you mean!
In regards to The Godfather scene for example (1), I've had a very turbulent relationship with my father since I can remember; a relationship that has taken me a very long time to finally find myself (after door-slamming my dad). I'm still in that process.
But that relationship between Don Corleone and his son Michael is beautiful; it was like a dream to me watching it as a lost kid, longing for his father's love. It showed me that there is a possibility of good fathers in this world, and it gave me peace to know that some boys had those kind of relationships with their dads; that the world wasn't that bad after all.
But Don Corleone and Michael also become my role models, as did the great men that played them, simply because of the wisdom and love they carried in their hearts and souls in real-life too. Yes the story was one of gangsters, but the way they carried themselves as men made me question what makes a good man. As a teenager it made me think about the importance of trust, respect, friendship, love, justice and so on and how to apply these to be a good man.
In this scene, the father is worried about his son and feels some regret; that there never was enough time. But Micheal simply says "We'll get there Pop, we'll get there". It's the passing of wisdom from the father to the son; the father becoming the son, and the son the father. And that deep trust and respect they have for each other.
It also turned out that this line was just as important to someone special in my life, which made it even greater for me.
I feel like I'm just waffling. The scene and film affects me deeper than I can put into words, I think. And my subconscious helps me make sense of my feelings through film and songs.
I'm still trying to figure me out haha.
And as I think that, my mind tells me "I'll get there".
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