*Pouts*
How about at least giving them an explanation?
explanation =confrontation
Confrontation and INFJ - bad...At least for me
*Sighs* yeah...
But it can be frustrating getting ditched and not knowing why.
Confrontation... oy this is just full of bad memories this thread.
Cutting people directly out is the most appropriate method of dealing with this, and the most mature.
Only bullies insist on being allowed to stay in your circle, and that's so they can continue to taunt them. When you cut them out, you're basically saying "I allow you no power to influence me." It's for the best.
You just have to mentally cut them off as well, and if they're there while you're with another friend, to see the other friend, just ignore them.
The only person I've ever confronted about this was my best friend from 6th grade. Our first year of college, he did something, and I said, "I don't want to be friends with you anymore." I wrote him a Dear John letter. I would have told him personally, but I prefer writing, and he was a 6-hour drive away.*Sighs* yeah...
But it can be frustrating getting ditched and not knowing why.
Confrontation... oy this is just full of bad memories this thread.
*Pouts*
How about at least giving them an explanation?
I almost completely disagree with that :/ Not all, or even most, people are out to bring others down.
I agree. If I want to stop dealing with someone, I will simply make it clear to the appropriate people that I do not want to be around them if I have any choice. As I've said, I will still try to be friendly during such a time that I have no choice.Cutting people directly out is the most appropriate method of dealing with this, and the most mature.