ButterflyChaser
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My gripe with it is the idea that if you're not part of the crowd and not someone interested in participating in it, then you're not worthy of their time, someone to be more less cut off.
My personal experience with one was meeting a very friendly guy who seemed warm and genuine, but he wanted to shake my hand and I don't appreciate physical contact, even with friends, much less someone I just met at a bus stop. When I turned down his offer, he seemed playful about it but I could sense genuine disappointment in me from him. He never spoke with me again from that moment on.
I hope it was just a personal thing with the man I met, but from what I researched, it seems to be a common thing. "Cut all negative people out of your life." In theory can be a healthy method of coping, but in practice can be rather limiting and isolating. Taken too far, and it appears to be an avoidance strategy and very unhealthy one long run.
I have issues with the concept of us vs the outsiders in other religions too, but that is my take on Scientology specifically.
My personal experience with one was meeting a very friendly guy who seemed warm and genuine, but he wanted to shake my hand and I don't appreciate physical contact, even with friends, much less someone I just met at a bus stop. When I turned down his offer, he seemed playful about it but I could sense genuine disappointment in me from him. He never spoke with me again from that moment on.
I hope it was just a personal thing with the man I met, but from what I researched, it seems to be a common thing. "Cut all negative people out of your life." In theory can be a healthy method of coping, but in practice can be rather limiting and isolating. Taken too far, and it appears to be an avoidance strategy and very unhealthy one long run.
I have issues with the concept of us vs the outsiders in other religions too, but that is my take on Scientology specifically.
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