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Misadventure said:
prolly not in the same ways an infp can
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I don't know. I'd love to have a friend I could chat with frequently.

Doing that here with most people but someone who is of a similar mind who I can flip a few messages to every day would be rather nice.

Would probably work better with a fellow INFJ as well because we approach life in a similar fashion.

Yes, all INFJs are relatively 'Lone Wolf' or whatever term fits, but same as a cat who associates with other cats the companionship is welcome.

You don't need to a pack hunter to associate with more of your kind.
 
ReasonEnduring said:
I don't know. I'd love to have a friend I could chat with frequently.

Doing that here with most people but someone who is of a similar mind who I can flip a few messages to every day would be rather nice.

Would probably work better with a fellow INFJ as well because we approach life in a similar fashion.

Yes, all INFJs are relatively 'Lone Wolf' or whatever term fits, but same as a cat who associates with other cats the companionship is welcome.

You don't need to a pack hunter to associate with more of your kind.
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Not what I was getting at. meaningful relationships matter more to infjs. A "buddy" is more or less an acquaintance and that may be fine to chat with from time to time but more than likely you'd get sick of meaningless banter and look for more depth. I LOVE meaningless banter. In moderation. Depth is a commitment that takes time for me to commit to.
 
Misadventure said:
Not what I was getting at. meaningful relationships matter more to infjs. A "buddy" is more or less an acquaintance and that may be fine to chat with from time to time but more than likely you'd get sick of meaningless banter and look for more depth. I LOVE meaningless banter. In moderation. Depth is a commitment that takes time for me to commit to.
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That I agree. But the term buddy is flexible so if a pair of INFJs got paired up for a natter the conversation would likely become deeper after a given length of time.

Thus pairing INFJs seems fairly sensible given the goal of this thread.

Yes its a lot more hard work but @slant is working hard to try and pair people with similar interests and attitudes as well as personalities, thus the extra hard work.

But still, a worthwhile exercise.
 
Misadventure said:
prolly not in the same ways an infp can
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It’s ok slant, I got u covered.

I am best forum-buddies with @noisebloom because he is the only weird ass mofo in this forum who shares the same level of weird ass fuckery like I do.
 
Rit4lin said:
Why is this thread still alive it was created three (and a bit) weeks ago, yet somehow in the 9 pages there's barely any forum buddies
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When have you ever known INFPs to be quick about anything?

JennyDaniella said:
I am best forum-buddies with @noisebloom because he is the only weird ass mofo in this forum who shares the same level of weird ass fuckery like I do.
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1. That you know of. 2. Where the hell is that weirdo anyway.
 
Misadventure said:
Not what I was getting at. meaningful relationships matter more to infjs. A "buddy" is more or less an acquaintance and that may be fine to chat with from time to time but more than likely you'd get sick of meaningless banter and look for more depth. I LOVE meaningless banter. In moderation. Depth is a commitment that takes time for me to commit to.
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Faye said:
Nope. You can have deep meaningful friendships, or you can have nothing. No buddies.
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ReasonEnduring said:
Sad INFJ is sad.

And my former gaming buddies disagree. DnD. Every Tuesday. Shit was hilarious.
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Heh, INFJs can have a lot of buddies but they are different kinds of buddies from INFP buddies.

It's true that they're usually not as often 'hang out and banter' kinds of buddies, though. It's hard to explain—I think in a way they're halfway between ENFJ buddies and INFP buddies.

I'm aware that the way I'm explaining this is very unhelpful.

Lady Jolanda said:
When have you ever known INFPs to be quick about anything?
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They're quick to CRY tho
 
Ren said:
Heh, INFJs can have a lot of buddies but they are different kinds of buddies from INFP buddies.

It's true that they're usually not as often 'hang out and banter' kinds of buddies, though. It's hard to explain—I think in a way they're halfway between ENFJ buddies and INFP buddies.
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I'll take your word on that one.
 
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