Yea, they are. I'm ENFJ, and you're INFP. So its like... we're opposites. So as Si for your tertiary, I have Se. etc. Frankly ENFJs and INFPs are supposed to be very compatible, but I don't really get along well with them. And its nothing personal, its just... we operate totally different. I have a few very good INFP friends, but they're exceptions really. I think the problem I have with INFPs, with no offence to you, is that they're too... judgemental. I'm a Je dom as well, but its a facade of judgement. I am judging just to put order in my world, but once order is set I will change those judgements. The INFPs that I know who have a problem with ENFJs, is that they are intrusive on ones self, they are wild and crazy and not in a good way, can be extremely sarcastic and not let on about it, they act, well as you say as well, childish, and they don't respect whats in place. Which I guess is true. idk.
Look, like. idk what I'm trying to say but. I'm sorry for bitching at you earlier calling you a prick. Whether or not you want to anything with that is your business, I'm just putting that out there.