Um, I mean it's a Chinese movie. The genre was romance-drama. The setting is on a battlefield, during a war.
Ew, weeks. That would be hell.
And I agreed. At this point everything seems to be a potential landmine for incidents and conflicts. And with all you described...yours seems worse than mine, I sympathize and I understand the feeling, if a bit.
My friends weren't really experienced with relationships, and each come with their own baggage, so I understand if this situation is getting...a little bit out of hand for both of them. But thank goodness so far there wasn't any emotional manipulation...at least the direct and intentional ones.
Sometimes seeing them, previously adult and mature and intelligent people, acting stupid over relationship matters bothers me. What will happen in my relationship?