I meant on the thread I started. I must be able to place a picture of what you want. Wish I knew you better, because I wouldn't have to ask. I'll just imagine something nice for you.
The lobster in the pot who does not know he is being boiled to death because the change happens slowly. That is what i was talking about. Peoples situations get worse. They grow accustomed..
Since you and I are both kind of dating around semi-actively and posting around about it, I was wondering if you would perhaps entertain the idea of starting a blog together about it and just sharing observations about dating and our internal feelings about it. Or is that weird? Anyway, just a passing thought I had.