ENFP's naturally have a way of drawing out emotions from me. As I'm sure you know, this is something I steer clear of at most occasions. I think really, it's their ability to be everything I'm not, while still being able to be smart and somewhat logical if the need be.
I don't know how well I'd do with a female INTJ. Seeing as how few there are, I'm unsure as to if I would ever be able to date one anyway.