Yea sorry I didn't explain myself well.
Umm and I forget which numbers are which. So.....
1) Fi: The textbook definition, is defining what your values are, or, hell, I'll just quote it. "It is often hard to assign words to the values used to make introverted Feeling judgments since they are often associated with images, feeling tones, and gut reactions more than words. As a cognitive process, it often serves as a filter for information that matches what is valued, wanted, or worth believing in. There can be a continual weighing of the situational worth or importance of everything and a patient balancing of the core issues of peace and conflict in life’s situations. We engage in the process of introverted Feeling when a value is compromised and we think, “Sometimes, some things just have to be said.” On the other hand, most of the time this process works “in private” and is expressed through actions. It helps us know when people are being fake or insincere or if they are basically good. It is like having an internal sense of the “essence” of a person or a project and reading fine distinctions among feeling tones."
But what it also does, is essentially translates from inside your brain to outside the world. Fe does the opposite, thus Fi will say I AM ME! and Fe says I AM GROUP! My fe is in overload most of the time, and anyone can attest to that.
34) What I mean by saying I believe that we have in common, is each type has a certain, almost aura around them I have noticed. I can't really pin point what it is, but each type behaves in their own way. INFJs are no exception. While of course I am probably the more extraverted of the INFJs, I have no doubt in my mind (after careful consideration) that Fe, and Ni are my dominant functions. Now, I would say I have Si over Se, but it's not possible to have both Ni and Si, and I don't think I have Ne. (Ok so I do, I'm just not trying to sound close minded by saying you're wrong if you say I have it.)
I'd say if I wasn't an INFJ, I'd be a very heavy imagination filled type. But not INFP, simply because. However, I think I could be INTJ, but I see myself as an NF, not NT.
Also, in response to your "no one would care if..." I realize that now, I misjudged their posts, and I probably could have saved a lot of trouble by not doing all this bullcrap.