Oh, so that's how it works! It makes sense. Because 1. you Ni folks tend to be reserved most of the time, even the extroverted ones; as if something is being processed under the surface always unknown; That gets us Ne folks quite curious, so we often ask what's going on there, which is apparently annoying ^^ 2. you strike suddenly from time to time with these nailed astonishingly correct summaries of reality, which make me feel that I couldn't formulate that well, even if I spent a lot of dedicated time on it.
But before all, it's an illusion of functionality that gets each side to be surprised and impressed by the other side's abilities. Sometimes I can't believe the explanations that it's "easy, and you can do it too", but it's probably right, it's not some supreme intellect, more like, different model of concentration of the efforts. It can look quite strange for the other one, almost magical, impossible, but it's not thaaaat different.
About the status quo thing, I usually see F/T-dominant types as more into doing, into results, so they tend to be more conservative on average. They want to use what works, now, and keep their weird theories under judging control. That's what I meant by it. However, they do have their own weird theories as well, and if you are ENFJ that just means that you feel secure enough in the nurturing creative environment of the INFJ world, to share such ideas while they are still raw.