12 Signs Of An Unhealthy, Underdeveloped INFJ

I've been on the outside of anything you could call normal society for a long time so a lot of this is new to me. Now that I'm trying to integrate I find myself running into a lot of this. It'd be nice if there was a pamphlet or like a couple of dudes on bicycles spreading the word. I could plainly see some things that caused me issues from childhood, but that there's a personality type that that describes me so well, for good and bad, would have been kinda helpful.

I was forged in fire though. Insight galore. Now I've got a list of stuff that helps make sense of things that always seemed odd to me. No big deal. I'm not afraid of change, it's just always been my perspective vs. the world.

Cool beans.
 
Asa said:
4. They door slam too easily and hold grudges. The door slam can be a healthy mechanism that protects INFJs from toxic people, and at times, it is necessary. However, underdeveloped INFJs will slam the door on important relationships — their spouse, close friend, or parent — without first trying to resolve the root issue. Instead of being a last resort, the door slam becomes the first and foremost way of dealing with any issue that pops up in a relationship.
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I think I went through a phase like that in the late 2000s.

I didn't really identify with the other signs, which I guess is good news. :)
 
Barkalounger said:
Sounds like deNile ain't (or is not, for the perfect obsessives) just a place in Egypt anymore...?
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Sense, you do not make.

Explain, you must.
 
WRONG

Real signs

1. Doesn't have a job - Mbti was created for women to get damned jobs.

2. People that have more power than them, don't like them - do you want help? I will get my icepick, you gonna feel better, we call it lobotomy.
 
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zetturn said:
WRONG

Real signs

1. Doesn't have a job - Mbti was created for women to get damned jobs.

2. People that have more power than them, don't like them - do you want help? I will get my icepick, you gonna feel better, we call it lobotomy.
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No, the trouble started when women started working. Come on, it's not as if their wages are good for anything but childcare, fancy hairdos, and junk trinkets.

If they trust the people in power, I deduct points.
 
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