Misadventure
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Starting this thread to address some really interesting and important questions EH has thrown out there. Let's keep this peaceful guys or I will get all crazy latina-asian on your asses! Absolutely no insults or fighting. We are adults, let's act like it. Thank you.
New thread idea!I'd like to start a discussion on this. It interests me.
It's not just white males tho. Honestly it's anyone who doesn't identify with or fit into that particular group. I hear kids using terms that are definitely negative, even more so than my nigga, such as faggot. I think these terms changed within the generations tho, and nigger or nigga and faggot do not mean what they meant in your childhood. That is also a huge part of it, not just which social groups use which terms. Age is a huge part of it. A middle-aged white guy saying faggot will absolutely have negative connotations attached to it. But if a kid uses it to call his dumbass friend a dumbass (which is what it means now) the meaning is taken as exactly that.I will not use the term because society has decided white males are to be silenced.
Again, depends on the social group and ages of the people using the term. In my circle of people, it is widely used as a term of endearment, of brotherhood. Why have we taken such a negative word and decide to use it against eachother? Simple. We made it a positive one. It can't hurt us if it's used in a positive light. I have been called 'nip' 'spic' 'half breed' all of the other negative words you could think of by...yup old white guys. This will change as more and more baby boomers die off. Just being honest. They were raised in racism and the majority are too set in their ways to change.Since I can remember being taught that phrase has always been associated with oppression and slavery. My question is though if it is in fact that (which it seems to be) how does anyone benifit from using it?
You really should take @Free up on the offer of her little experiment. I KNOW you're not racist or a bigot and really just want to understand people. But, I have more experience with INTJ's like you and so does she, which is why I think she proposed such a thing to you. Here's my thoughts EH, you are not disliked. I actually happen to like you and count myself lucky that I never dive into the politics threads because... NO. NF's are passionate about our ideals. Sure you can challenge them, but don't insult us in doing so. We will react in irrational and even more passionate ways if you do that. That's what makes us NF's, not NT's . But dude, you talk about nothing other than politics! How can we as a community relate to you? Talk more about you cat, we love seeing that side of you. We would love to hear about anything going on in your life OTHER THAN POLITICS!Now I know that I am not liked here. People think that I am trolling in everything I say. I keep telling them there's nothing further from the truth and they keep telling me I am lying. My point Is, I do not mean to offend. All I am doing is asking the questions no one wants to address in my mind in order to gain a better understanding of society in general.