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Same here.I'm not comfortable using these sorts of terms in conversation. Maybe it's because I grew up in a part of the US where white people (especially "old" ones, but certainly not limited to them) casually threw around the n-word to describe literally any black person, even going so far as to assign gradations to the term (good n----, bad n----, a n---- who knows their place). I have no experience with what it's like to bear the connotations of such terms, plus the nuance of when someone might find it okay vs. not is too murky. So I simply refrain.