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[MENTION=5045]Skarekrow[/MENTION] I am on my phone and data currently is such that I can watch video at the drop of a hat
A friend who lives in another country just recently asked me, "Why must everything turn into an issue of race in the US?" Why indeed. I would like to say that we are more socially progressive than that. I would like to say that we see very little of racism or bigotry in general. But I'd be lying if I said such. The US is still extremely racist. A sad truth, but the truth nevertheless.
It's something hidden, like a dirty little secret that people only discuss in hushed whispers. We need to talk about racism. I admire those with the courage to speak frankly about it. It's one step closer to making a change.
I love that this thread exists.
A friend who lives in another country just recently asked me, "Why must everything turn into an issue of race in the US?" Why indeed. I would like to say that we are more socially progressive than that. I would like to say that we see very little of racism or bigotry in general. But I'd be lying if I said such. The US is still extremely racist. A sad truth, but the truth nevertheless.
It's something hidden, like a dirty little secret that people only discuss in hushed whispers. We need to talk about racism. I admire those with the courage to speak frankly about it. It's one step closer to making a change.
I love that this thread exists.
Saying the US is racist is like saying blacks are criminals. It doesn't matter if the statistics are supportive to the fact that blacks more often end up in jail than whites. Calling all blacks criminals is a generalization that can lead to profiling, discriminating and even hating certain groups. Welcome to cognitive dissonance. You are all discriminators and haters. I find it odd that society thinks race/color of skin and sex orientation are the only ways a person can discriminate in. Hate the rich lately? 'The 1% are all criminals.' Hate politicians lately? Give out any lawyer jokes at all? 'all liars' Think this people from this country are all bad drivers?
I don't care about racism. Discrimination of any kind and hate thereof is all the same and leads to the same results. The only way to stop it is to stop making judgments and to give every person a chance to draw you a picture of who they are and not base it on your own history of the groups they might associate with. 'Oh, you are a Christian? ... you must be a judgmental self righteous bigot who thinks women are second rate'. Go ahead and hate Americans and refer to them as bigots. I got news for you. You just stepped into the bigot boat being towed by the hypocrisy craft.
One of the only things you have posted here that Istrongly disagree with. What are you basing your assessment that the US is still EXTREMELY racist on?
Or are you like the vast majority basing your conclusion on being told how racist it is by news stations or people like Al Sharpton? How many actual instances of rasicism have you seen with your own eyes?
Southerners, the less educated, self-identified conservatives, and/or Republicans have around a 10%-15% higher statistical chance out of 100% of disapproving of interracial marriage. Every demographic has around 4/5 people agreeing with it in principle — or more.
African-Americans comprise only 13% of the U.S. population and 14% of the monthly drug users, but are 37% of the people arrested for drug-related offenses in America.
Studies show that police are more likely to pull over and frisk blacks or Latinos than whites. In New York City, 80% of the stops made were blacks and Latinos, and 85% of those people were frisked, compared to a mere 8% of white people stopped.
After being arrested, African-Americans are 33% more likely than whites to be detained while facing a felony trial in New York.
In 2010, the U.S. Sentencing Commission reported that African Americans receive 10% longer sentences than whites through the federal system for the same crimes.
In 2009 African-Americans are 21% more likely than whites to receive mandatory minimum sentences and 20% more likely to be sentenced to prison than white drug defendants.
Sorry but it sounds like you didn't even read the posts at all...
It was meant to be in response to free2be not skarecrow. Post 106.
Sorry then, but my thoughts about it still stand.
Yes, we are all hypocritical, and apathetic in ways, and self-centered.
But we all also the opposite of all those things at times too…it’s the struggle we all fight within ourselves when we are deciding and constantly reassessing who “we” are as a person and what kind of world we wish to see prosper.
I agree. I only think that obsessive focus on race, sex orientation, and other lawfully protected categories blinds us to the billions of other ways we might discriminate making a persons personal growth very limited. Doesn't mean it shouldn't be discussed.
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Is comparing blacks using drugs to whites and blacks committing drug crimes even accurate? Are we assuming that all individuals who abuse drugs are drug traffickers/distributers and visa versa?
It is common knowledge that poorer people are more likely to commit crimes in desperation to survive. Blacks a generally poorer. Can we be certain this doesn't have anything to do with it?
One of the only things you have posted here that Istrongly disagree with. What are you basing your assessment that the US is still EXTREMELY racist on?
Or are you like the vast majority basing your conclusion on being told how racist it is by news stations or people like Al Sharpton? How many actual instances of rasicism have you seen with your own eyes?
Saying the US is racist is like saying blacks are criminals. It doesn't matter if the statistics are supportive to the fact that blacks more often end up in jail than whites. Calling all blacks criminals is a generalization that can lead to profiling, discriminating and even hating certain groups. Welcome to cognitive dissonance. You are all discriminators and haters. I find it odd that society thinks race/color of skin and sex orientation are the only ways a person can discriminate in. Hate the rich lately? 'The 1% are all criminals.' Hate politicians lately? Give out any lawyer jokes at all? 'all liars' Think this people from this country are all bad drivers?
I don't care about racism. Discrimination of any kind and hate thereof is all the same and leads to the same results. The only way to stop it is to stop making judgments and to give every person a chance to draw you a picture of who they are and not base it on your own history of the groups they might associate with. 'Oh, you are a Christian? ... you must be a judgmental self righteous bigot who thinks women are second rate'. Go ahead and hate Americans and refer to them as bigots. I got news for you. You just stepped into the bigot boat being towed by the hypocrisy craft.
For one, I despise Al Sharpton and his ilk, and two, I'm intelligent enough to search for the real news rather than be satisfied with the drivel that is spoon-fed to the placated majority of the country. I form my own opinions, they are not handed to me. Back to the matter at hand.
The mistake you made is thinking that perhaps I am too naive about racism. I do think you are entitles to your opinion, however, I am entitled to mine as well. I do admit that my opinion is rather biased, because I have lived it, not just "witnessed" it.
I see it all the time. But since that would be hearsay, what's the point of detailing it? Furthermore, I have lived it. My parents are immigrants to this country. They came with nothing but a passport in their pockets. Even though they were highly educated in their home countries, they were treated like dirt here. My father with an engineering and science degree, my mother with a degree in business and human services; both ended up working minimum wage jobs. They learned English, became tax-paying citizens of the US, and were still treated like society had a disdain for them. There were more than 5 times growing up we would have "Go home you fucking spic" or something equally choice spray-painted on our car. We would have our windows busted out in the middle of the night. Even in the grocery store people would "comment" that they "are the ones buying that food. Our taxes pay for the welfare you brown people are on"..when not once, not once did my parents get welfare benefits and instead paid into them like every other tax paying citizen. It has changed since I was a kid, but I'm only 35, it hasn't changed that much. And also, please, racism involves every race, not just ,minorities. I am not saying America is white against black at all. I see more times than not, black vs black, latino vs black, latino vs white, and every other combination there is. I am NOT saying it's white against the world. I AM saying that it is an issue in this world, and one we have to deal with. Sooner or later America is going to bend over backwards trying to appease everybody in this all to politically correct world.
My father is a retired Marine, my brother just died a Marine in service to his country. Make no mistake about my patriotism. I love this country and the opportunities that America, and only America, gave me.