Conversely, I will self-sabotage sometimes when things are not going well. Mostly when I'm in a job that I hate, I will act out and force the issue of leaving ... especially when I've been sitting on the fence about it. I don't do it so much in relationships, althoug I did it a few times in the past. With relationships I usually try to work through the issues ... or, if they are unworkable, end them.