Zero Angel
Permanent Fixture
- MBTI
- INFJ
- Enneagram
- Possibly 4w5
How important and (perhaps more importantly) how urgent is this cleaning anyway? I suspect it probably doesn't matter all that much. I'd suggest a laissez-faire approach. The biggest problem here is a J who things that if something is left undone it needs doing and falls to her to do. Get to to lay off her sister and relax. Once the P girl realizes that she is expected to be self sufficient she should have no problem doing the tasks by the time there is a good enough reason to do them.
Well its something that's more important than urgent, and it has to start at some point or it will get progressively harder and harder to do.
The kids, particularly the younger ones are quite messy, which is to be expected. However when there is 3 kids messing up the house the amount of housework for the parent can be overwhelming. If they clean up in small increments, then it becomes normal for them instead of something they will try to avoid; and it makes things a lot saner for me (who cannot tolerate disarray as well as most INTPs can), and the kids grow up to be able to take care of themselves and their living space, as well as develop a decent work ethic.