FlusteredENTP
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- MBTI
- ENTP
Thank you in advance to anyone who takes the time to reply to this thread, I really appreciate any feedback, advice, or constructive criticism you are able to give me. I'm looking primarily for feedback from women, but open to anyone's advice.
I am a mid 20's male ENTP down to the letter, and forgive me for saying so, but charismatic, attractive, and affluent. I've always been a bit of a ladykiller, confident, cool headed, and particular about the girls I date. And then I met her. I'm going to withhold all the positive things I have to say about her to make this short, but she is a quiet, sweet, reserved, INFJ a few years younger than I who likes slightly older dominant men. We met for the first time over the summer, and we were completely electric. I've never met anyone I've had so much in common with, and though I don't believe in love at first sight , there was this immediate and undeniable click we both felt, like we had known each other forever. I've been on a lot of bad dates, and this was certainly not one of them, and even though I told myself it wouldn't end in sex, it did. Before I left the next morning she told me that I was the best lover that she ever had and was very taken with me. That was the last I saw of her.
A few days went by and I hadn't heard from her so I sent her a text. To my confusion she was very distant, a sharp contrast to a few days prior. She told me that she was accepted to a school very far away and that she had not expected to get accepted to this school and that she was sorry. I told her that I would still like to see her until she left. We made plans for the weekend, and when the time came around she never followed through. We continued talking, but this happened several more times before she left, which drove me to damn near madness. I started acting boyish and foolish, and then, nothing. After she left for school she would frequent my online profile daily (where we first started talking) but did not say a word. Time went by and I still found myself thinking of her, she continued to frequent my profile every few days without saying a word. At this point I would normally have chucked it in the f*ck it bucket, but I have never been so enamored with anyone before. I sent her a video of me playing the guitar, and a few PG pictures and she ate it right up. She watched the video a good number of times and frequented my profile more often but still said nothing. Time went on and she frequented my profile less often. Unwilling to take no answer as an answer, I sent her another video of me playing her favorite song on the guitar and some PG-13 pictures. Again, she watched the video a good number of times, frequented my profile more often, yet still nothing. Now here I am feeling flustered, foolish, pining, and confused.
I guess my question is really just an opened ended wtf? Please, any feedback from some female INFJs would be really helpful.
Thanks,
Flustered ENTP
I am a mid 20's male ENTP down to the letter, and forgive me for saying so, but charismatic, attractive, and affluent. I've always been a bit of a ladykiller, confident, cool headed, and particular about the girls I date. And then I met her. I'm going to withhold all the positive things I have to say about her to make this short, but she is a quiet, sweet, reserved, INFJ a few years younger than I who likes slightly older dominant men. We met for the first time over the summer, and we were completely electric. I've never met anyone I've had so much in common with, and though I don't believe in love at first sight , there was this immediate and undeniable click we both felt, like we had known each other forever. I've been on a lot of bad dates, and this was certainly not one of them, and even though I told myself it wouldn't end in sex, it did. Before I left the next morning she told me that I was the best lover that she ever had and was very taken with me. That was the last I saw of her.
A few days went by and I hadn't heard from her so I sent her a text. To my confusion she was very distant, a sharp contrast to a few days prior. She told me that she was accepted to a school very far away and that she had not expected to get accepted to this school and that she was sorry. I told her that I would still like to see her until she left. We made plans for the weekend, and when the time came around she never followed through. We continued talking, but this happened several more times before she left, which drove me to damn near madness. I started acting boyish and foolish, and then, nothing. After she left for school she would frequent my online profile daily (where we first started talking) but did not say a word. Time went by and I still found myself thinking of her, she continued to frequent my profile every few days without saying a word. At this point I would normally have chucked it in the f*ck it bucket, but I have never been so enamored with anyone before. I sent her a video of me playing the guitar, and a few PG pictures and she ate it right up. She watched the video a good number of times and frequented my profile more often but still said nothing. Time went on and she frequented my profile less often. Unwilling to take no answer as an answer, I sent her another video of me playing her favorite song on the guitar and some PG-13 pictures. Again, she watched the video a good number of times, frequented my profile more often, yet still nothing. Now here I am feeling flustered, foolish, pining, and confused.
I guess my question is really just an opened ended wtf? Please, any feedback from some female INFJs would be really helpful.
Thanks,
Flustered ENTP