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as a younger man i was reasonably messed up. i was very unhappy and acted totally irresponsibly. i've worked pretty hard over time to resolve these issues.
lately i've been feeling that i've been slowly (or in fits and starts) growing more completely me, and also that these developing qualities that seem more true to myself (both as being more comfortable to live with, and also that i dreamed of for myself when younger and unhappier) match more closely INFJ type descriptions. i used to look like some kind of unstable extrovert, but now i'm quieter around people, i'm more reserved or "frosty". i used to hoard, but my environment is increasingly clean and orderly. i'm more patient than ever before and i achieve more than ever before. i make more consistent and less fallible plans to achieve goals. i also feel more aware of other people and more sensitive to what's going on for them. sometimes i have felt that i can "break down" or "see through" others completely. i feel like i am developing skills relating to conflict resolution, leadership, caring, and even "tough love" that other people generally don't have, and that i haven't had before. i have sometimes felt strange sensations of moving weirdly beyond loved ones and others surrounding me.
i'm interested in whether others have experienced anything similar to this?
lately i've been feeling that i've been slowly (or in fits and starts) growing more completely me, and also that these developing qualities that seem more true to myself (both as being more comfortable to live with, and also that i dreamed of for myself when younger and unhappier) match more closely INFJ type descriptions. i used to look like some kind of unstable extrovert, but now i'm quieter around people, i'm more reserved or "frosty". i used to hoard, but my environment is increasingly clean and orderly. i'm more patient than ever before and i achieve more than ever before. i make more consistent and less fallible plans to achieve goals. i also feel more aware of other people and more sensitive to what's going on for them. sometimes i have felt that i can "break down" or "see through" others completely. i feel like i am developing skills relating to conflict resolution, leadership, caring, and even "tough love" that other people generally don't have, and that i haven't had before. i have sometimes felt strange sensations of moving weirdly beyond loved ones and others surrounding me.
i'm interested in whether others have experienced anything similar to this?