Has anyone else had people say that you were super logical when you have an F function? Could it even be logic or just the aura of sounding smart and saying seemingly logic things? Or, are people just insanely stupid about other people's emotions.
I've always been called logical and have always considered myself to be so and have always taken it as a compliment. I was raised in a family of very practical people and was pretty repressed in my emotions until I went to college.
During college I tested as an INTP which, 10 years later, seems ridiculous but I can see why. My true INFJ intuition allows me to see things from all sides and, especially in emotional matters for others, I'm often able to come to a seemingly logical conclusion pretty fast. I have an easy time with theories and like the "what-if" aspect of science so I used to think this meant I was more of a Thinker than a Feeler. Ha - if I'd only known!
In regards to my erroneous "P", my mom is a very strong J but to the point where she's so organized she is able to drop everything and efficiently change plans as needed, giving the illusion of flexible spontaneity. I take after her in this way but back then I thought it meant I WAS spontaneous. When I compared myself to my family I thought I was sloppy but once I got out into the world I realized how warped that view was when I saw how strong my J is compared to most others.
The OP makes an interesting point about how perhaps we just SOUND smart and maybe most other people really aren't that emotionally acute. I'd never thought of this before but, not to put some other types down, I agree. I think its our iNtuition that gives us that edge, the ability to recognize higher concepts before S-types have a chance to discover those same concepts with their hard-logic. By the time they catch up to us, we're on to something else and if we also use our INFJ skills to read their personality well and (consciously or not) 'stroke their ego', I find I can often come off as "pretty smart" (YMMV, in various establishments of education I've been tested as statistically "smart", and you can't stroke a test's ego
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As for emotions I've only begun to learn about that aspect in comparison to others. I've spent 30 years thinking there was something WRONG with me, that I was overly emotional! Now I know I'm just uncommon, like most of y'all.
While I often feel mired in my own emotions, finding them to be a nebulous tangle, I have a very easy time cutting through the emotions of others. Some people find that helpful and others are turned off/frightened by this.
Sometimes this ability is a bizarre duality - like I feel very LOGICAL about the emotions of others but can't apply any logic to my own emotions. Anyone else have this problem?:noidea: