INTP user
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Thanks for your responses!
My messages were infrequent so 11 months is not a big volume of information. Chatting is inefficient because you miss all body language information. When I meet someone in person I can quickly tell if I will like someone, via written messages it is much harder and you end up with an incomplete picture. I also didn't try to ask her out since a few months. To be specific I tried to ask out only one at the beginning but her response was that I she is sorry but she doesn't meet strangers. She didn't know much about me at the time. Generally I felt some resistance when trying to talk about the physical space. I decided to share more information, build some foundation and than try again to ask out. I simply plan to dwell in her mind and I hope one day it will be to late for her to turn back
My thoughts:
- she is extremely shy (this is my impression) and act passive (in many aspects). My guess is she expects me to act because I have much more information about her the she has about me
- I made my intentions rather very obvious. If she wasn't interested at all she could just act coldly and make it die naturally. She was evenly enthusiastic all the time - it is hard to guess if it is just kindness. After long (really quite long) time without me messaging her, she sent me something. Again, my intentions were obvious. If she wasn't interested in anything, it was perfect situation to escape the situation without drama. She not only initiated something, but showered me with compliments with intensity I never experienced in my life She should be aware of consequences.. I red that INFJs often seem to be cold when interested because of shyness and than desperately try to fix that.. than go back to acting coldly.
- no thoughts left
Correct me if I am wrong (I know you like it!)
My messages were infrequent so 11 months is not a big volume of information. Chatting is inefficient because you miss all body language information. When I meet someone in person I can quickly tell if I will like someone, via written messages it is much harder and you end up with an incomplete picture. I also didn't try to ask her out since a few months. To be specific I tried to ask out only one at the beginning but her response was that I she is sorry but she doesn't meet strangers. She didn't know much about me at the time. Generally I felt some resistance when trying to talk about the physical space. I decided to share more information, build some foundation and than try again to ask out. I simply plan to dwell in her mind and I hope one day it will be to late for her to turn back
My thoughts:
- she is extremely shy (this is my impression) and act passive (in many aspects). My guess is she expects me to act because I have much more information about her the she has about me
- I made my intentions rather very obvious. If she wasn't interested at all she could just act coldly and make it die naturally. She was evenly enthusiastic all the time - it is hard to guess if it is just kindness. After long (really quite long) time without me messaging her, she sent me something. Again, my intentions were obvious. If she wasn't interested in anything, it was perfect situation to escape the situation without drama. She not only initiated something, but showered me with compliments with intensity I never experienced in my life She should be aware of consequences.. I red that INFJs often seem to be cold when interested because of shyness and than desperately try to fix that.. than go back to acting coldly.
- no thoughts left
Correct me if I am wrong (I know you like it!)