[INFJ] Help needed: how to approach an INFJ?

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Ok.. I have bad social skills as every INTP (I can be very outgoing using Ne but it is impossible to fake Fe all the time). I am socially inexperienced, so I prefer someone closer to my level in that regard. I am also young looking so nobody can guess my age 8) So, why not?
 
why not date someone under the age of consent? um...
Well because "consent".
Young people are easily impressionable, and will make decisions they will regret later, if so prompted
 
Icedream said:
why not date someone under the age of consent? um...
Well because "consent".
Young people are easily impressionable, and will make decisions they will regret later, if so prompted
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Icedream said:
It's a moral thing. like taking advantage of someone who doesn't know better, though you and they may think they do. It's just not right
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This is not the case. She is not that young. I am also uninterested in "using" anybody. If I am not interested in marrying a girl, I am not going to pursue her. It would be awful and just waste of time.
 
INTP user said:
This is not the case. She is not that young. I am also uninterested in "using" anybody. If I am not interested in marrying a girl, I am not going to pursue her. It would be awful and just waste of time.
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Dude.

You've said in this thread that you barely know this person at all. You have a "huge crush" on her which I presume is largely based in the superficial (given that, again, you don't know much about her personally). You have up to now presumed her personality type to be INFJ, which I find to be exceedingly strange of you, but okay, whatever.

Apparently you recently grabbed this person out of nowhere without her explicit consent. Without, even, much of a personal history with her at all. She reacted in an understandable manner.

Unless I'm missing something - you have formed no discernible basis by which you could ever know if you're interested in marrying this person. Have you ever had so much as a conversation with her?

Also please do not impugn other INTPs with the old "well I'm socially awkward don't mind me haha" bullshit. Yes, I am socially awkward. I was much moreso at your age. But what you're describing is just...odd. AT BEST.
 
infinite dreams said:
Dude.

You've said in this thread that you barely know this person at all. You have a "huge crush" on her which I presume is largely based in the superficial (given that, again, you don't know much about her personally). You have up to now presumed her personality type to be INFJ, which I find to be exceedingly strange of you, but okay, whatever.

Apparently you recently grabbed this person out of nowhere without her explicit consent. Without, even, much of a personal history with her at all. She reacted in an understandable manner.

Unless I'm missing something - you have formed no discernible basis by which you could ever know if you're interested in marrying this person. Have you ever had so much as a conversation with her?

Also please do not impugn other INTPs with the old "well I'm socially awkward don't mind me haha" bullshit. Yes, I am socially awkward. I was much moreso at your age. But what you're describing is just...odd. AT BEST.
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Thank you, infinite dreams. Please don't scare him away, I'd still like to talk to him
 
infinite dreams said:
Dude.
You've said in this thread that you barely know this person at all. You have a "huge crush" on her which I presume is largely based in the superficial (given that, again, you don't know much about her personally). You have up to now presumed her personality type to be INFJ, which I find to be exceedingly strange of you, but okay, whatever.
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I just see enough evidence showing that she is definitely INFJ.

infinite dreams said:
Unless I'm missing something - you have formed no discernible basis by which you could ever know if you're interested in marrying this person. Have you ever had so much as a conversation with her?
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I want to know her better, and than I can make decision on marrying. I like everything I see, but I have to gather evidence that I should really do it. Marriage is a goal of dating.

infinite dreams said:
Apparently you recently grabbed this person out of nowhere without her explicit consent. Without, even, much of a personal history with her at all. She reacted in an understandable manner.
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I did not "GRAB" her, it is huge exaggeration. I talked to her later. I don't know if she noticed that or she wasn't angry about it at all. She told me that finds me interesting.
 
Believe me, we would never be a thing.

That aside, I want to help you. give me what I need to do so
 
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