I also have a hard time relating to religion in general, there are so many, how do you know which is the correct way? specially if you follow another one you get condemn, even if you were a good person. There are so many religions...all preaching the same ''positive'' messages but at the same time have views that even go against what they teach themselves such as compassion, tolerance and understanding, I really hate it when such negative views are emphasized, and it has been turning me away..no matter what i always find something negative, for example religion has caused many troubles, wars etc, just because of a blind belief..why would God allow for so many to form? to cause wars and pain? Sometimes I find religion from letting us advanced as people, since it just condemns mostly about every single thing which I don't believe are bad. I also get annoyed at the fact that many religions have turned into ''organizations'', big collectors of money that get rich from faithful offerings, if you look at a lot of this famous preachers of true, you would see a lot of them with huge mansions, nice cars etc, and then they make you feel bad if your unable to pay..by making offering almost as mandatory as any other rule, we focus on such details like making the church pretty, or having this huge churches with high tech just to keep people from boredom instead of focusing on actually helping and aiding others, I could go on and on about what things I don't agree with....