Drugging yourself thin
This may not be true anymore, and I hope it isn't, but back when I was working my way through college, my boss had a girlfriend who also worked as a fashion model.
I went to lunch with her one day at McDonald's. She ordered just a burger, and took off the bun, eating only the meat. I thought that a strange way to stay thin, and asked her about it. She told me she had severe hypoglcemia, and if she ate any carbs, she would pass out. She said her doctor told her should could not expect to live past age 30. I was using my INFJ B.S. detector, and this was not B.S. It taught me a lesson that day, ie. never to assume anything or be jealous, because you don't know what others are going though. Up until then I'd been envious of her thinness. Though I was normal weight and had a tiny waist, I had to work at it, and normally avoided McDonalds like the plague.
She also proceeded to tell me that she was the only model she knew who did not have to take drugs to stay thin enough to work. I asked what the preferred drugs were, and she said cocaine and heroin, esp. heroin. I guess I was pretty naive at that age, because I was quite shocked.
I always thought it might be nice to move to New Zealand, where the Maori natives think fat is beautiful.
Statistically, only 15% of the population is capable of being that thin. They have a body type called ectomorphic. The vast majority of us had ancestors who went through extreme famine, and we carry genes that make extreme thinness impossible without what I described above, ie. heroin, etc.
It is not just the thinness that is sick. There is the self-mutilation of having surgery to get larger breasts, suck fat out of tummies and thighs, lift your butt, lift your face, and so on. I have a friend who just had perfect eyebrows permanently tattooed on. They are supposed to be brown, but they look purple to me. Even though I was once very pretty, and am now quite the opposite, I would not dream of mutilating myself that way. I have far too much self esteem.
My husband blames the whole thing on the fact that gay men run the fashion industry, and are naturally trying to make women look like the 14 yr. old boys they prefer. He is not anti-gay; he just thinks women should be able to run their own fashion industry and not let men decide how they should look.
I think a woman with enough self-esteem would do as I do and say f*ck the fashion industry. It means zilch to me. So where did our self-esteem go and how do we get it back?
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