Don't hate it. Embrace it and love it! It's who you are and you are gorgeous! Don't let anyone tell you otherwise! I'm in the same boat,and probably will be for the rest of my life. I'm 5'4" and I currently weigh 90 pounds. I have never weighed more than 100. People automatically assume that I have an eating disorder because of the fact that I am thin. I constantly hear "You need to eat more" or "We need to fatten you up". These statements have become rather offensive. I shrug them off with giggles and smirks, but in all honesty they aren't funny. I eat and I take care of myself. I don't watch my weight and I don't worry about gaining weight. I know if just won't happen. Skinny is what I am and it's completely natural. What exactly is wrong with that? I am not unhealthy and I am not starving myself so whats the issue? People don't want bigger women to be self conscious yet they are all about giving thinner women complexes? Seems a little off to me.
Have you ever wondered if any of these fashion models are like me? They just happen to be skinny because that's the way they are? I am not denying that some women have eating disorders but don't assume they all do. It's absurd. These women are just as beautiful as those with fuller figures.
To show examples, here are some of todays "Top Models".
Caroline Trentini
Lily Cole
Jessica Stam
(are these women emaciated? I don't see it...)
And here are what some bloggers refer to as "real women".
Christina Hendricks
Kim Kardashian
America Ferrera
Just to name a few...
I don't see how either group is less attractive or more attractive than the other. They are two different types of beauty. Simple as that.
I suppose what I am saying is, If you want to fight eating disorders be my guest. There are millions of people that suffer from them and they need help. However, don't give skinny girls complexes while you are at it. I know you want bigger girls to feel comfortable in their own skin, and that's great. But, there are plenty of women who are just simply built to be thin and broadcasting that "bigger is beautiful" and "real women have curves" may help some women feel better about themselves, but hurt others. I'm not a real woman because I am skinny? Yeah, no! Real women come in all shapes and sizes, remember that.
Fight the disease not the women!