How do INFJs process emotions in long-term relationships?

[Hyacinth]

Since the original post was how do INFJ women process emotions in long term relationships I had felt I had stayed in topic but now I’m slightly overthinking. The answer is we don’t tend to be emotional at all. Most of my friends will tell you that I’m extremely hard to get angry so they laugh at the rare times that it does happen. Intellectually we approach situations by backing away and analyzing it and rarely go into discussions fully with our feelings. We tend to be overly rational, looking at something from all angles and fully dissect it before we ever involve emotions at all. The only time you will ever see it is if someone rejects or ignores one of our core values then we tend to give several warnings before allowing it to ever anger us. Anyways hope this helps and sorry again for getting off topic earlier.

 

[Wyote]

Anyways hope this helps and sorry again for getting off topic earlier.

INFJs can have a lot of tangential thoughts and ideas, this place is more casual so don't feel bad.
So long as things aren't driven off topic in a toxic way and generally stay in the lane of the topic, it's all good.

Welcome.
Hyacinths are beautiful btw.

 

[Hyacinth]

INFJs can have a lot of tangential thoughts and ideas, this place is more casual so don't feel bad.
So long as things aren't driven off topic in a toxic way and generally stay in the lane of the topic, it's all good.

Welcome.

Good to know because I can go off topic a lot lol sorry to be like this but it’s great having a place where I can be myself and ppl understand me. I try to stay on topic as much as I can but I’ll be honest my mind tends to go everywhere since my thought process tends to resemble a spider web versus linear where I’m picking and choosing ideas and throwing in what I think relates and what I think doesn’t relate. I am a bit ADD but I’ve been great at masking this my whole life by simply not ever opening my mouth. That saved me from a lot of embarressment but I’ll be honest I’ve opened up a lot here because just seeing the word INFJ makes me feel this is a safe space for me so I do what I normally don’t do… open up and let my walls down.