Wow. To all the people who say: I avoid / ignore / run away from them.
That's mean to the other person in my opinion.
But on the other hand, I'm biased and you're probably right that it's best on longterm. (Don't really know how to say this in English.)
It took me a long time to be able to do this, but if someone tells me that they like me like me, I tell them right away that I am not interested. Of course, I am as nice as I can be about it, and I explain to them exactly why I am not interested.
If they don't tell me that they like me, but it is pretty clear that they do. It is a little more diffucult. I usually am very distant from them, and very distant in communication. Most people get the point.
My asexuality allows people to accept it easier.
I don't have to say 'I'm not attracted to you', I say 'I'm not attracted to anyone' and then after that when I mention there would be no sex, ever, most scadaddle!
My asexuality allows people to accept it easier.
I don't have to say 'I'm not attracted to you', I say 'I'm not attracted to anyone' and then after that when I mention there would be no sex, ever, most scadaddle!
How can someone who runs like hell in order to not get hurt, deal with it more appropriately?