In love with a INTP

Hello guys! Thank you all.

Update:

I confronted him about the ‘living with the ex’ thing 3 months ago. We had a long conversation about it. My INTP was having financial issues... despite being the most brilliant person I ever meet, he was kinda unemployed (but not anymore).

We still talk on the phone a lot... more than one hundred hours from the first call (yeah, I keep the track).

We have seen each other six times. I was with him on his birthday. We did a road trip together. The last time we saw each other was two weeks ago, he came to my city despite of being sick (I took care of him a little bit).

We are still nothing ‘official’ but sometimes it seems that he is in love with me. I know I am.

I do not know what is going to happen. I have decided that next month I'm going to ask him if he wants to be my boyfriend. I am excited and scared.
 
pato said:
I feel like... I am ready to be heartbroken... this is the first time I fell in love. I mean, I know I am going to be devastated (if he tells me no) but in the end ready to move on.
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I completely understand. Sometimes love means accepting the heartbreak that you know will come afterwards, because you are so desperate for love in the present. Even in the aftermath, the pain reminds you that it was real. I just hope you don't get truly broken. Enjoy the good while you can. :)
 
INTP here. It sseems like he does care but he still loves his ex. He seems confused. INTP are quite truthful so it seems odd he didn't say that he was living with his ex. Just be careful this isn't more of a lust thing. INTP get excited around everyone they are very attracted to.

Try telling him that you are ill for a while as in you have a bad flu or cold. See how he reacts. If he is in love with you or sees you as someone special he will come over immediately with medicine or will bring medicine wherever he can reach you. If two days pass and all he does is wish you to get better than he's tricking you.
 
Cealie said:
INTP here. It sseems like he does care but he still loves his ex. He seems confused. INTP are quite truthful so it seems odd he didn't say that he was living with his ex. Just be careful this isn't more of a lust thing. INTP get excited around everyone they are very attracted to.

Try telling him that you are ill for a while as in you have a bad flu or cold. See how he reacts. If he is in love with you or sees you as someone special he will come over immediately with medicine or will bring medicine wherever he can reach you. If two days pass and all he does is wish you to get better than he's tricking you.
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Interesting Lithmus Test
 
Cealie said:
INTP here. It sseems like he does care but he still loves his ex. He seems confused. INTP are quite truthful so it seems odd he didn't say that he was living with his ex. Just be careful this isn't more of a lust thing. INTP get excited around everyone they are very attracted to.

Try telling him that you are ill for a while as in you have a bad flu or cold. See how he reacts. If he is in love with you or sees you as someone special he will come over immediately with medicine or will bring medicine wherever he can reach you. If two days pass and all he does is wish you to get better than he's tricking you.
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That is such cute advice lol
 
Thank you all!
(Sorry for my bad english)

@Cealie Thanks for the advice! I may try it.

His ex told me that their relationship ended 4 years ago, because INTP became very cold and did not even touch him anymore. Ex is now on another relationship.

INTP and I went to the beach yesterday, it was really nice. We hug a lot. He said out of nowhere: I’m very happy! (I was too). We’re going to have ‘sharing necklaces’ (his idea).

Still have doubts. One thing I am sure is that I really love him.
 
kfg(atj said:
When I saw "In love with INTP" my first reaction before even reading was "Ew. Why?"
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pato said:
Thank you all!
(Sorry for my bad english)

@Cealie Thanks for the advice! I may try it.

His ex told me that their relationship ended 4 years ago, because INTP became very cold and did not even touch him anymore. Ex is now on another relationship.

INTP and I went to the beach yesterday, it was really nice. We hug a lot. He said out of nowhere: I’m very happy! (I was too). We’re going to have ‘sharing necklaces’ (his idea).

Still have doubts. One thing I am sure is that I really love him.
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Please try it. We INTP love hugs. Sharing necklaces shows he feels close to you. But still be careful. Test him.
 
dudes without jobs will not be proud to admit it and may rely on girls if need be

give the guy a break
 
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