INFJ and living alone?

Eee! I love my own place! And... I got a cat last night!

I got her from an animal rescue, and she's absolutely adorable and SO soft! :D
 
I will! :D
 
She came with the name Rosie. But, I renamed her Sable (she's all black).
 
Since I'm living in students hostel, I live with two random girls. And what can I say - I'm happy about it. Living with other peole helps me not to shut away in my "shell" or just to use my intuition to help them. My roommate is extroverted and her "twittering" reduce my anxiety. ;)

Maybe it's just like winning in lottery - my roommates undestand that I need solitude and sometimes I could put my headphones, stick my nose into the computer and...disappear.

About living alone. I think I couldn't do it, because I don't have any strong bonds with any person at he moment. And living alone would kill me slowly. :) Or maybe I'm not so strong to live alone with my murmurous minds.
 
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I've almost saved enough money to move out! :m177:

cannot wait!
 
im a 30 yr old Vet who moved back in with mom...

... heh... she is still readjusting to my private times...


... but its one of the best feelings to know that i have a place to go and be welcomed back to...

... i loved living on my own... but i don't know why a lot of people just want to move out...

if you really want to blow their minds, move to a different country when you move out...
 
Motor Jax said:
if you really want to blow their minds, move to a different country when you move out...
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I did that. I moved to Mexico. My mom really didn't know what to do. It was wonderful and terrible and I had a baby. But it did blow her mind.
 
I wish I can live alone but can't afford it my roomates when moved to NZ drove off the wall I felt like a single dad & because I like quiet & peace moved to a nice suburb juz 15 mins out the city center by bus though I had my bro as roomate he was not bad as he was less dominate & considerate with bit of reluctancy
living with insensitive ppl is a nightmare especially f they break ur privacy with no shame if it was not 4 pills i would not b able to keep up
I think living alone can make u feel lonely but here eastern society ppl never mind their own business so yeah I will never feel lonely if l live alone I just wish I have the money :(
 
Man I'd love to live alone.

*Drink straight from the juice cartons
*Play music at full volume
*Sleep naked on the couch
*Hoard Girl Guide corpses in the shed

Lucky you.
 
Che PEACE said:
I wish I can live alone but can't afford it my roomates when moved to NZ drove off the wall I felt like a single dad & because I like quiet & peace moved to a nice suburb juz 15 mins out the city center by bus though I had my bro as roomate he was not bad as he was less dominate & considerate with bit of reluctancy
living with insensitive ppl is a nightmare especially f they break ur privacy with no shame if it was not 4 pills i would not b able to keep up
I think living alone can make u feel lonely but here eastern society ppl never mind their own business so yeah I will never feel lonely if l live alone I just wish I have the money :(
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Funny.. for some reason I thought everyone in Dubai was wealthy. Stereotype.

Cuddle Donor said:
Man I'd love to live alone.

*Drink straight from the juice cartons
*Play music at full volume
*Sleep naked on the couch
*Hoard Girl Guide corpses in the shed

Lucky you.
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Keep whatever you like to eat stocked, without other people stirring things up. (I like Earl Grey tea - and when I used to live with other people, someone put my tea in a container that had fennel seeds - I could have shit lightning I was so annoyed).
 
I have lived alone and not.
I realized that I like living with other ppl. As long as I have my own space, my preferably sound-proof room where I can go and close the door, crank up my tunes, or just enjoy the silence, I am way cool with it.
Yeah, ppl are irritating and messy and intrusive, but I'd rather have them about than be alone.
 
yea, i don't mind living with other people as long as i have a place of solitude and isolation that i can get away for a bit...

... mom just barges into my room at random times, just to tell me something that happened in some country i couldn't even pronounce, much less know where its at... with the house dogs in tow... and it annoys me to no end...
 
I've been living in my own apartment for 5 years now and would rather die than have a roommate (girlfriends are another story! :D ).

On a related note, I never cease to be shocked by how filthy the homes of other guys my age are. I'm not the neatest person myself but my issues are just messiness (as in pop cans, clothes, books lying around and forgetting to dust things), not filth.
 
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