*sniffs* For an INFJ, that's not very nice, @VH.![]()
Just walk up to her and ask her if she's an INFJ. If she is (or if she's never taken the test), then you've got conversation leverage. If not, then you have a better idea of what you're working with. Either way is win.
Trust me, I have encountered quite a few INFJ males who are that way as well. They're on their guard.I think that might do well if she isn't an INFJ, but if she is, I think he'd be blowing his chances. Especially if she hasn't heard of MBTI. If a guy came up to me and started talking about something I'd never heard of or typing me when he hadn't spoken to me, I'd be turned off and irritated. I'd also be really overwhelmed by that kind of interaction from a stranger. And coming from a guy... it'd come across as creepy. Any guy that thinks he's watched me enough to know my personality would give me big time 'stalker' red flags (I think that might be more of a woman thing than an INFJ thing).
I remember suggesting not just walking up and saying 'Hi.' That's a lot of pressure for the INFJ.
I think that might do well if she isn't an INFJ, but if she is, I think he'd be blowing his chances.
What?! Saying "Hi" is already too much pressure? Yeah, well perhaps I'll try some smoke signals... or semaphore.
I have the impression that you are really looking for an INFJ ... What will you do if she isn't an INFJ?
@VH;
don't worry, us INTJ (lol thanks @Serenitystare at you NF's with the same kind of facination...oh my god, did they just say..that makes no sense ... (uh, you get the idea)
Honestly, some of my bestest friends are Feelers...really...
Jeeesus... have you guys really started a conversation with a stranger with MBTI?
I am definitely not going to mention anything about MBTI. Jeeesus... have you guys really started a conversation with a stranger with MBTI?
@technics Would you mind clarifying what her crystal clear signal of interest was, and what your flirting looks/sounds like? Pretty please...? ;D
What?! Saying "Hi" is already too much pressure? Yeah, well perhaps I'll try some smoke signals... or semaphore.